Robyn Park
20 years ago
I agree with Alina. Even if you think he won't hit your child, he might...and you can't allow that to happen as a mother. I understand how hard it is, but it truly would be better to break off the relationship with him and maybe find someone who will be a good father to your child, and a good man to you. (This is just what I think I would do in your situation, but the choice is up to you...) |
olivia
20 years ago
hey well if he hits u once thats alrdy one time too many.abuse only gets worse once it stats might not b al teh time now but it will escilate to taht.As far as the baby well if he hits u swhile ur pregnant why do u think he wouldnt hit ur child.Ppl who are abusive dont care if its there child ir teh mother of the child.Its about there temper and anger issues.and as far as u staying with him cause u wnat ur baby to have a father you dont wnat that enviroment 4 u or ur child lets just say teh impossibelk happens and he didnt hit ur child ur child will grow up seeing his motehr hit and tahts just as bad.So if u dotn wnat to leave 4 ur own sake leave 4 ur childs.I wish u the best of luck. |
Sarah
20 years ago
Okay, here's what I think...you are strong enough to ask for help and advice, you are strong enough to get away! It takes more courage to ask for help then suffering alone!! And here's the deal, if you know its his baby, tell him you're more than happy to let him have visitation once the baby is born-SUPERVISED. And by the way...GET THE CHILD SUPPORT! He made this child, he can pay for it! Let him know that you want him a part of your kids life, but he's got to prove himself FIRST! Take care and I hope you have a smooth delivery!! |