What do I do?

  • Lydia O
    20 years ago

    Here is a little encouragement. I have two friends, Rob & Allison, who worked and travelled together as a sales team for four years. All that time they were just good friends and co-workers. They had sometimes shared hotel rooms but had never even shared a kiss. One morning as the daylight was breaking, Allison pulled the car off the highway and asked Rob how he would feel about a different kind of relationship. He said that he had been ready to ask her the same question. Now they are happily married.

    If the right time has come, maybe you are each waiting and hoping for the other to take the initiative. Why don't you tell him how much you value the friendship you have shared. Then just ask him how he would feel about taking your relationship to a different level. Once said, you will both probably be happy with the outcome.

    Best of luck. ---Lydia

  • Shædow Poet
    20 years ago

    I think Lydia is completely right, things could definetely work out. Just wait till the right time to tell him; if you both feel the same way then it is most likely that the situation would work out well.

  • Lexi Lou
    20 years ago

    but be warned....if it dosnt work out your friendship is at stake i dated my best friend only to find out hw should never have been my friend at all....

  • DMG
    20 years ago

    It is difficult when a strong friendship has been built, especially because expression can risk your friendship. However, if you know he feels the same and you are comfortable with him, you should tell him.

  • Unseen Exposure
    20 years ago


    If you're close to him, let it out. And if you're sure he feels the same way, what's stopping you? GO FOR IT!!

  • Megha
    20 years ago

    yeah go 4 it! best friends make the best couples...

  • Megha
    20 years ago

    thts a superhit bollywood movie about 2 friends who secretly know they r made 4 each other but can get themselves to say it...so they dont...and it turns into this big mess....so do it b4 he cant wait 4 u to admit it nemore and he finds some1 else...

  • Hope
    20 years ago

    LOL, you both have feelings for each other. So what are you waiting for? Go get him!!! :)

  • UM
    20 years ago

    Yup, go for it. When I first became friends with my g/f we just clicked and shortly became best friends...and then a year later we're together.