I feel so sick and used

hey hun well u know alrdy what the deal is tahst hses makin excuses so that she can date other ppl.I know it shrad to accept taht form the ppl that u love but shes alrdy cheated on u 3 proir times u should have realzied mayeb she wasnt the one during the previuos events.You sound like asweet good guy and noone deserves to b used or walked all over.Your there making ur self sick and what is she doing ... shes "talking" with her ex bf she snot hurting liek u r.So u have to think to urself is it worth being sick over somone who doesnt even really care it doesnt seem liek she respects u much she showed tat much by kissing ur bf the 1st time.You dont do taht kinda stuff to ppl u love and she should b woman enough to jsut break up instaed of using lil exucuses like "time apart" so she can date around without feelign bad.There r soo many good girls out there ones who dotn cheat or use good guys leik urself.So since u alrdy know what the game is why dotn u jsut tell her its over ya thats very hard to do but all shes doign is hurting u more an dmore by stringing along soemthing she doesnt really want.You need to find soemone who will love respect and appreciate u.I know its love u say and tahts so hard and it kills u inside but once u jsut end it and stop playing her games u can start ur healing process ist not worth being sick over evry day especaially when she snot even fazed by it.

i wish u the best of luck
xoxo

Jack, your gf cheated continually and never took a relationship seriously. I'd say she's just immature or doesn't want to settle down with any one guy. Despite what she may have said in the past, she has now indicated pretty clearly, both by her actions and her words, that she is not ready to have any serious relationship. I'm sure it is difficult to deal with this breakup and loss right now but in the long run it is probably a blessing in disguise. People like this who are fickle, who continually flip-flop and who can't find contentment are just not good relationship prospects. And that is something none of us can change. People just are who they are and not what we would like them to be.

Getting involved in activities and exercises that require a lot of physical exertion often helps clear the mind of emotional pain and stress in times like this.
Wishing you all the best. ---Lydia

hey jack, how are you feeling now? coming from a girl, i think you need to rest and take care of yourself first. i can't tell you what to do and i don't have any experience in love, but that might be the best thing to do for now:(

you said it yourself that she doesn't exactly know what she wants. maybe she needs the time to sort out her feelings and priorities. she is scared of commitment and i can't blame her for that. you've shown her how much you respect her and treasure her. maybe you've done everything to show her that you really care for her... very much. i can tell that you're truly devoted to her and i really admire that. maybe all you need to do is wait. but i don't know you and i can't come up with descent conclusions because of that. i'll come back later. take care