my brothers best friend

  • Ebony
    18 years ago

    ok well my brother is 17 and his friend is 18 and im not 16 yet but for 2 years me and "mike" have had a thing for each other and one night 2 months ago i stayed the night at his place coz i was at a party near where he lived so i was thinking it would be easy for me to stay at his house anyway i didnt get to his till 4 in the morning and he stayed up waiting for me, we talked for a while and ended up hooking up in a big way and noe i cant get him off my head and each time we see each other it like there is only us so i dont know what to do he is my brothers best friend help if you can

  • Simon Hayes
    18 years ago

    The problem here is you getting with him, it's him getting with you. He will need to speak with your brother about this and get things cleared up. It gets really messy sometimes... He'll start sticking up for you and WHAM - arguments all over the show. I got with my best friend's sister, and he wasn't over the moon. As soon as he clicked on to the idea that I wasn't out to hurt her, he was cool... but we had our conflicts. You can't ignore your heart though!!

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    I agree with Simon. You or him will need to talk to your brother about it. He is his best friend and you are his sister and that could cause some conflicts. It is easier telling him and then having things go that way rather than keeping it from him and having him find out the hard way.

    -Jenna.

  • Brittany
    18 years ago

    i had the same problem, all i did was tell him how i felt, but my bro is a year younger and his best friend is the same age as me, and i was his friends first, and he wouldn't leave me a lone for the longest time till i told him that it was just for kicks and it didn't mean anything, then he left me alone, now we are just friends with benifits ;)

  • Brittany
    18 years ago

    i had the same problem, all i did was tell him how i felt, but my bro is a year younger and his best friend is the same age as me, and i was his friends first, and he wouldn't leave me a lone for the longest time till i told him that it was just for kicks and it didn't mean anything, then he left me alone, now we are just friends with benifits ;)