What do you think????????

Okay, everyone. I know you're probably tired of hearing from me, but I really do need help. I'm torn between 2 really awesome guys. Please, take some times to read it.

Trevor says he likes me, but he has a girlfriend, and he's into her right now. He said maybe later, which means if things don't work out between him and his girlfriend, he could possibly ask me out. Trevor is my best friend in the whole world. He told his GRANDMA that he loved coming to my house. His grandma told my mom, who told me. He should've known that his grandma can't keep a secret. There's a few things I don't like.
--He has a girlfriend.
--He's just a wee bit cocky. (He has a right to be sometimes, though. HE'S FREAKIN GORGEOUS!)
--I'm scared about losing his friendship. (I would absolutly die if we couldn't be at least friends.)

Josh says he loves me. He asked me out last night, and I said yes, but I'm worried about some things.
--He's 18 and in college. (I wouldn't know if he was cheating or not. And, plus, he seems kind of old. I'm only 14. Trevor's 14, too, by the way.)
--He's a virgin. (That's not a bad thing. What's bad is that he's desperate and would probably have sex with the first person that asks.)
--He asks me to have sex with him all the time. (I'm afraid he might do something if he comes down here. He don't seem like that, but you never know about a person.)
--He lives 12 hours away. (He said he was going to save his money and come down here, but that could be a lie.)

So, do you think I should break up with Josh and wait for Trevor, or do youthink I should just remain friends with Trevor and stay with Josh? OR do you think I should break up with Josh and just remain friends with Trevor?

i'd say go with door number 3. You say that Josh says he loves you, but that fact alone shouldn't be enough. You seem unsure about how you feel about him. You're also afraid that he might "try something" with you. You shouldn't need to have that pressure in any situation, but especially when you're 14 and already not sure about him. Also, you don't seem to trust him very much, in regards to cheating and coming to see you, which could be a red flag.
Now onto Trevor!
It sounds like he really does care for you, but you should probably keep your distance until he actually knows what he wants. "Maybe later, if things don't work out with his girlfriend?" that's pretty conditional.

I hope things get less confusing for you soon. In any case, talking to either of these guys about your concerns wouldn't hurt.