IN LOVE WITH OLDER MAN

Well i fell in love with this man who is 16 years older than i am.The funny thing is that i didnt expect to at first it just happened as time went by.Well n-e-how.Right from the beginning he told me he wasnt looking to get into a serious relationship soon and i agreed to that.He says he likes me alot but nothing else.

It's been a couple of months now and my feelings have gotten stronger for him.I cant help but want something stable like boyfriend and girlfriend thing.I'm scared its too soon to ask him and i might scare him away. I think his scared to love again because he got hurt in the past really bad.He shows no signs of wanting to make our dating exclusive which saddens me.

Should i be there everytime he needs me or should i move on?Or should i lay things out in the table and tell him how i feel?..I guess im scared to make a fool out of myself:(..What should i do?

PoisonIvy~

maybe if your feelings have got stronger over the past few months then maybe his feelings might have got stronger too?
yes you do need to tell him how you feel and in my opinion, if its been a few months then its not too soon to ask him about a stable boyfriend girlfriend relationship.
even though he got hurt in a past relationship if you have shown and told him that you love him then it will help him recover and help him love again, and love you.

good luck, sarah xx

Thanks for replying to my problem,but how should ask him?When should i bring it up?

Yeah you have to ask him. You should sit down with him somewhere and tell him you need to talk. When he asks about what, say us. And then go from there - just tell him how you feel. You never know what might have happened if you keep it to yourself.

-Jenna.

yup i agree with jenna, and also make the place where you talk to him somewhere quiet and make sure its a good time for you both, so eg. not when one of you is tired and stressed.

sarah xxx

You're 21 years old (according to your bio at least) and are big enough to make your own mistakes.

I'm not saying it will be a mistake, just saying that the world is a big place and there's plenty to explore.

You guys are right.Well wish me luck because im going to really need it.Thanks once again!