Does anyone think I'm evil for doing this?

Yesterday I made out with my best friends younger brother. (He's 13 and I just turned 18 two days ago). She knew we made out, but she didn't know we also had sex. Now the problem is that I have a b/f well actually a fiance (sp?). He doesn't know, and we all promised never to tell him so we didn't hurt him...But I still feel very dirty and evil for what I did especally since both me and the other guy liked it...I mean I don't want to leave my b/f or anything because I love him to death...but...I also kind of want to do something with the other guy again even though I know it is wrong and I shouldn't.

You do realise a female over the age of 18 having sex with a minor is illegal eh?

Yes I do...but its not like anyone will ever find out, and I know better than to do it again even though I want to.

If You are wanting to have sex with other people your fiance can't mean that much to You.. Not trying to be harsh here but if You love someone You don't cheat on them

Just wanted to add.. knowing it's illegal and doing it anyway, You can't even put it down to ignorance.. I have a 13 year old son and would not hesitate in taking this to the police if it were him.. He is just a child and You are supposed to be the responsible adult. We always think it's wrong when it's an older man with a younger girl.. it's paedophilia.. women with young boys is no different.

Okay, i'm sorry for being blunt, but that's just wrong. If you did that with a guy that much younger then you, you must have a problem. You couldn't possibly love your fiance if you slept with someone else. To make matters worse, it was your friends younger brother, and you don't even want to tell your b/f. Okay, honesty is important in a relationship. Not only do you need to be honest with your b/f, but your friend as well. I'm sorry, but you have a problem..that's so wrong..

Wow... That's pretty much evil.

if youh wherten going to tehll then whyy tehll us?

Oh golly Darling. You have got yourself tangled here. If you love your fiance - tell him. It will hurt him more to find out some other way. And don't do anything more with your friends brother.

-Jenna.

ANYONE WATCH HOLLYOAKES?

i only ask as didnt a school boy go with a teacher, and when things didnt work out he went to the police?!

i only mention this as the 13 yearold you went with evenyually could go to the police since he has the power now, you cant do a damn thing-what you did was wrong, plain and simple..telling the truth wont do any good now but keeping it a secret is going to kill you inside, especially if you say you love your fiance the way you do.

and the fact his sister - your best friend knew about it, is even more eww...i cant believe she let that happen, i cant believe you did!

so wrong..on many levels.

october xx

wow you are unfaithful and definately what you have for your bf is not love but you need someone to feel secure and yet another to do dirty things. i sysmpathise your bf. please be honest to him atleast now if you have loved him truely.

Umm.. well i think everyone else pretty much said what i was thinking. You are way to old for him. That's pretty wrong. And you have a fiance? You shouldn't be with him if you don't love him, and you can't if you did that. You should be honest to your fiance, and tell him the truth.

3 words: shame on you
for an 18 year old, before you had sexual intercourse with a minor, you should have thought about the consequences. think before you act.

" Now the problem is that I have a b/f well actually a fiance"
your fiance doesn't seem too important to you if you forgot to mention he was your fiance and called him just a boyfriend first...
TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND
part of being married is not hiding anything from eachother, the longer you wait, the worse the problem will become.

your fiance doesn't seem too important if you were willing to take a chance to do stuff with a 13 year old....
seriously.

My fiance is really important to me...and I feel really bad because of what I did...And yeah I know better than to ever do it again.

Also I didn't call him my fiance right away because I didn't feel like getting the same reaction from you guys that I have from so many others...The usual "you're too young to be engaged...why not just call him your b/f and see where things go in the future".

WHOA...U R EVIL FOR DOING THAT...U KNOW U GOT TO PICK WHAT U WANT...LET HIM GO OR GO AND HAVE YOUR FUN!!! U R JUST GOIN TO HURT HIM!!!

I am not going to let him go and he is all I need...I don't want the other guy...and I will just tell him and make it extremely clear...my friend said she'd back me up whatever I chose.

You keep calling him "THE OTHER GUY" but hun he is a BOY.. Has he even went through puberty yet??? Seriously you should tell your fiancee.. I mean if you really loved him you wouldn't have done that... I mean come on. The KID is 13... And your 18.. Hello... ILLEGAL.....

And yes.. Your EVIL....

As I have said before I work with people your age and his you are obviously not ready to get married
or this wouldn`t have happened ,postpone the engagement, Its not that unusual though,it happens more often than people think,I don`t think your evil but you should put it behind you and not let it happen again,you say no one knows and then post it on the website,ARE you kidding,the whole world could know ! I`m not but what if I was a police officer OR AM I ?

I thought about it ,I don`t want to scare you I just wanted to make a point, you never know whos on here.........I`m not a cop,

what u did was down right disgusting....u are evil for what u did and u need to tell ur bf cause he doesn't deserve to be put through that...i have friends that have lil brothers that are 13 and if that ever happened to one of them i would be kicking their butts for that!!

I also have a 13 year old brother. All my friends are 16,17,18 if they ever tried doing something like that I would kick their butts then put them in jail. Which is exactly where you need to be!!! And your boyfriend can probably find someone a lot better than you and someone that won't cheat on him with a 13 year old BOY.. not even a man.. God your sick and disgusting. Maybe you should go get some help

I have no comment.
Sorry.
Everyone said it already.
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wow...13....OMG....I can't believe you did a thirteen year old and LIKED IT!!!!....lol and wanted to do it again...he's not even fully developed!!! lol OMG jus think he was twelve last year...I mean wouldn't you want sumthin bigger?....lol I mean your size...

alright.... first off...... you dont deserve your fiance. and he doesnt deserve a sick liar as yourself. thats down right disgusting

and you cant love someone if you're willing to cheat on them with a LITTLE BOY!!!!

That Poor Boy was just horney

you probably scarred him for life

i hope you know that if that lil boy is proud of himself for sleeping with an older girl.... his friends will eventually find out and then you'll have a bunch of 12, 13, 14 year olds asking you to take their virginity

everybody makes mistake.... but you broke the law

whether u say it wont happen again or not.... you will always have that resting on ur shoulders

you need to leave your fiance. and tell him that he deserves SO much better

and i think u need some help...... seriously

maybe you did this cause you really do think your too young for marriage or your scared to be locked down for life

after all this talking i think you know you have made a big mistake but i know that everyone make a mistake whether a big or small mistake. listen hun forget about the 13 years old guy and continue your life normal. and about your boyfriend maybe is better not to tell him and ignore everyone. decide for yourself.
note: if you decided not doing it again it's okay i am with you.

"my friend said she'd back me up whatever I chose."

The friend who knows perfectly well you had illegal sex with her younger brother? ohhhh good sibling friendship I tell you. I wish me and my brother had that kind of bond. seriously.