Cold Heart

  • Nicole
    20 years ago

    I fell strong for this guy. He was everything I wanted but I thought I could never get. We spent days hanging out at the local center and we had a lot of chemistry going on. This continued for about 3 months. He finally told me he liked me one day and I was thrilled! But then, he asked another girl out the next day! I was upset but still in love with him. He broke up with her soon, and asked me out. I said yes, because I really couldn't say no. It lasted hardly 2 days. The next night, he sent me a text saying "i cant go out with you" I cried all night and never asked him why. I don't think I wanted or needed to know. He's never spoken to me since. Had he no shame? Guilt? Conscious?

  • Hope
    20 years ago

    How strange, 3 months of chatting and dating for only 2 days. Something big must have hit him if he felt that he had to say "i can't go out with you" and hasn't talked to you since.
    If i was you, i would find out what made him change his mind. It could relieve a bit of your pain and answer your question, being why he left you. To me. that is something worth finding out and would help me move on. That's just my opinion.
    Remember, if it hurts you, then it hurts him too.
    As for if he had no shame? Guilt? Conscious? I guess you would be closer to answering that than any of us. I don't know anything about him.
    Don't dwell on the past, it will merely make you feel bad. You can't change it, but you can change your future.
    I wish you all the best of luck on your journey through life!!! :)

  • Nicole
    20 years ago

    Oh, thank you so much for replying. You're right--I need to somehow get rid of my wondering and just ask him. But he's moved on and I just dont want him to know I'm still dwelling in the past...I am close to getting over it, I feel, but it perturbs me when I think of him leaving so abruptly. I'll take your advice, though. :)