i thought..than WHY?!!

i thought i was over him...than,,when i heard that he propused another girl...i fell hurt..lonely...and sad*..
y do i feel this?..it's been like 5 months since we broke up..than y do i feel hurt?...

every girls question........ and no one can seem to answer it...

I agree with the post above mine...

It's the fact that you probably were over him physically, but not emotionally and you didn't expect him to move on so quickly... Considering it's been 5 months since you broke up and he's already proposed to another girl... That is hard... But eventually, you will get over him completely... Getting over someone takes a lot of steps, especially if you cared deeply for that person...

I personally have just recently gotten over my ex... And it's been nearly 9 months... He had a new girlfriend 2 weeks after we broke up... And it killed me.. But eventually, I got over him... And although I do still care about him, I can honestly say I'm truly over him.

It's hard, and I wish you the best. If you ever need to talk, just pm me and I'll reply as soon as I can.

~BJ~

I don't know either hun. I am the same. My last relationship was extremely complicated, but i loved him so much. I thought i was over him, and i was so happy that i was because it took me such a long time and so much self disapline to try to stop thinking about him etc. Then all it took was me talking to him for a few nights and i realised i really wasn't over him. Then i found out he has a girlfriend. This KILLED me. It still does and its been quite a while now, a couple of months. I now realised i'm not over him, and i think i will always have feelings for him because i loved him and had such deep feelings for him. Just like what the person above me said. It's hard to think that you will be the same, but you most likely will. I know that's not the best thing to hear, but i'm just saying what i have been through. I hope you deal with it better than me hun. Good luck.

thanx..all of you

you feel the hurt b/c u still love him!!!

That happens to me sometimes too. But ^^ I agree with that. You do still have strong feelings for him if you feel that way about his proposal to someone else. Hope you work it out Darling.

-Jenna.

I agree with the first person, it`s somethin` we all can`t seem to answer .
But ayee, that happened with me before . It`d been like five months too,and once I heard all these people saying he asked out my enemy, everything came rushing back .
That was a long time ago tho .
..ღ__MiNDYY

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lol..all of you..but thanx for the answers ...it did made me feel better..but dunno y..like..when i'm near nth happens nor does ma heart beats faster,,nth..just like o he's near me..and nth no feeling no excitiment..near him..than why does it kills me?...but the gurl he choose is also ma fren,,and she knows about me and Him..i mean like i liked him a lot.....

and i heard from ma another fren that ma fren is gonna say NO to him..hope it's not because of me..*sad*....

First things first, DONNOT BLAME YOURSELF IN ANY WAY! It's his AND her choice! as for the hurt....it hurts now but down the track you'll be over him, you will have found the perfect soul-mate, you have a beautiful soul, and I prey for your happiness in the future *hugZ*

talk about beauriful soul--i'v got a ugly soul lol...and thank you fro preying for ma future happiness--lol..same to you..lol..thanx it made me happy!!..thank you alll!!..and imean it