Give him another chance????

I know it's long but please read

ok give u the background - i've been seeing this guy on and off since may. Not that we were every actually an offical couple.
at the start i wanted something but he didn't - so we stopped talking
one month later he messages me again. We see each other again (kiss) but i didn't want n e thing so i stopped messaging him
Then a month or two later he messages me again. i tell him i dont want to see him anymore and yeah he was all like why..then ok

But then i got calls from him telling me he still liked me and lets go out. i called him to tell him to stop calling me and found out it wasn't him but his friends. i ended up in tears and hated him

Now a month later he messages me saying he misses me and i told him 2 call me 2nite so i can get everything out in the open.
i have yr 11 exams to study for and really dont want to get hurt again but i dont want to loose sumthing that could be really good.

Please help

To be honest, it sounds like he's messing with you. You shouldn't let him put you through that. There are so many great guys out there. This one doesn't know what he wants. He's obviously not ready for a relationship. Move on, and focus on your exams.

Something "really good"? Can't you see from 'past experiences' that nothing good has occurred?

Ignore him. Eliminate any ways he can contact you. Move on. [not with relationships]. and do your year 11 exams. mkay? simple? good.

Either he geniuinly likes you and this is his way of showing it (after all, guys suck at this sort of thing in my experience, lol)
Or he's just messing around because he can.

But like you said, you have exams at the moment, you don't need this kind of hassle. So Just tell him that. And if he still pesters you, cut off contact until your ready to talk again.

But at the end of the day it's up to you =)
Good luck x

ok..look...think if this guy really does love u and miss u...think of how much u'd b missing out on...he could b the greatest thing 2 evr happen 2 u...take the chance and if it doesn't work out..then it doesn't work out...don't get so depressed about it...if it's meant 2 b...it'll work out. don't fall really hard until u're sure tht he's the 1. i know how it feels 2 b confused about these kinds of things. i know it hurts and it feels like u juz wanna give up on evrything cuz u thought u knew evrything 2 know about it. but trust me...it's not worth getting so hurt ovr...it'll eventually make it 2 where u don't wanna feel n e thing else. so plz juz don't fall real hard till u're SURE.

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