between love and friendship and family HELP!

see this is it, im 13 i have a bf and guys after me, my boyfrind is so jealous about those guys he could almost punch them out sometimes... then theres this guy my parents stop me form hanging out with, Daniel he was the most amazing guy and he still is. i manage to see him in my parents back but its not easy, he loves me just as much but my bf has no idea about it. then theres my cousin christian who depends on me alot and i dont really know what to do cuz this summer we just started falling in love with each other after not seeing each other for a hole yr. its weird but i really like him to but i love my bf like i love that other guy daniel i dont know what to do... does anybody have an idea?

wait... you like your cousin?

Maybe you're just not ready to have a boyfriend. I'd just wait and be single for now to decide what you want to do. If you have a boyfriend but like two other guys then that's not really fair to him. Indecisiveness and dishonestly can kill a relationship. Besides, you're 13. I'm not saying that you're too young but at the same time you have LOADS of time to worry about this stuff. And as for the cousin thing, you may think that you're developing feelings for him because now you're both teenagers and guys and girls can really grow up in a year. So you may just like the thought of being with someone like him or it's just hormones. I dunno hwo to explain it, but anyways. yeah. Don't rush into anything, you'll save yourself a lot of heartache and confusion. Hope I've helped :)

Your 13 hun.
Plenty of time to worry about boys and love triangles when your older.
Just enjoy life while your still young and free
(how corny did that sound?? Hehe)
*Gem*

look i know it sounds like a love triangle but it isnt because i know me and my cousin are attracted to each other but nothing will happen hopefully but i really love my bf seb, hes the best he cares about everything about me and well daniel him well thats another story, i love him but thats just something thats in my mind but when im with seb hes not there, seb knows about daniel and he understands and i just nedd to figure out how to make it work i want to stay with seb cuz hes the best bf ever but i need to know just how to tell daniel that its not a good idea anymore cuz just as much as we love each other its just impossible for us because of my dad cuz my dad might hurt him! thanks for the help but i need to figure this out! HELP

love is a hard concept to understand...i've thought about it over and over again...and i guess that well ask yourself...if you had to give up your happiness...who would you give it up to? that's a hard question...cause you never know when true love hits...and about daniel...well...tell him the truth..as much as it would hurt him...he'd be better off with the truth rather than ignorance and lies...and about your dad...well, you could try talking to him help him to understand...why would your dad hurt him?

First of all, don't get mixed up with your cousin, I can guarantee that will cause a whole lot of problems.

Next, you say that you're "in love" with this Daniel guy, but you don't want him because you have the best boyfriend ever. In my opinion, you need to just get yourself away from them both. At 13 you are way too young to be mixing yourself up like this. Go hang out with your girlfriends, and find something to concentrate on other than boys.

^ Amen!

ok many have asked me why my dad would hurt daniel, heres the answer: my dad really doesnt love him at all he thinks hes in drugs and hes bad and in ttrouble with the cops because he dresses like a gangster sorta thing.

about liking seb more, not really i love daniel more but i love seb i cant be with daniel but seb my parents dont mind so i just dont know!

Okay, you're 13!!! Guys are the least of your worries. You're going to be starting high school before you know it. You need to focus on school, friends, and family. At 13, relationships aren't supposed to be serious. You're young, give it time. Geeezzz..take a break from guys. You don't need all that drama at your age. Just have fun with your friends.

Oh and, i highly doubt you're "in love". As for the cousin thing, that's wrong. Never get involved with family, it's sickening.

im not saying im in love im saying theres a little attraction, thats all i dont know who bit your finger today but your afful mean for no reason

and yes i am in love i had to grow up fast because of family issues so ya u dont know me i want advice not judging

"im not saying im in love"

"and yes i am in love"

Do you even see what you're saying? Anyways, you say you want advice? Well here's mine: It doesn't matter how fast you were forced to grow up, that doesn't mean you have to be dating and doing this 'love triangle' thing or whatever you want to call it at this age. Forget both of the guys, leave your cousin alone, and concentrate on a hobby or your girlfriends. You don't need to stress yourself over boys when you are only thirteen!

your cousin?!?!? Listen im not going to tell you what to do because im not much better with relationships but what i do know is:
1) your cousin ewww NO!
2) youre 13 you have the rest of your life ahead of you to worry about guys
3) You seem like a smart girl follow your heart only you can be the one to decide whether or not what you are doing is right for you.

ive talked to my cousin i told him that the attraction has to stop so were keeeping time apart for a while and well me and my bf were almost over, hes been bad against my best friend and daniel well i still need to talk to him, thanks

So your 13,thats kool,but but I'm totally confused.Are you saying u are in love with your cousin?
Like gemma said.enjoy life while your young
.I may be 16 but I still try to enjoy life as much as I can.

im not really in love with my cousin just a little attraction sorta thing!