I don't know If I can get over him... HELP!

theres this dumb guy, and I totally fell for him, and he's over me but I don't know what i should do... any help would be good!

hmm seems short so my answer will be short too ;)... how about asking him of his intentions ?

its hard! i no! took a year to get over someone! it really depends how much u love him....

The more you care, the harder it is to let go, lol that's similar to one of my quotes. An expert suggested that ppl like you should sever contact and get rid of anything that reminds u of him. Another alternative (Thanks to TC in this forum) is to find someone else who cpatures ur attetnion and ur heart. Of course, in time your feelings will slowly die out, but it may take a long time like one year.
I wish you all the best! :)

well thanks for your help... heres the thing. I met him like... i'd say January so I've known him quite some time. He and I liked eachother for a while but he and I are both shy people so It didn't start until he asked me out in April... so then we went out for 4 months and It was so good. i just loved everything about our relationship. I loved that we took our time, and we didn't rush into the whole I LOVE YOU thing... we waited until we both felt it. So It was going so good, and then we got into a fight over some really dumb stuff... and It just kind of slowly fell apart. I didn't really do anything to prevent it from ending either... I didn't call him, or do anything that would help the relationship. I didn't really realize that it would effect it until I get a call from him that it's over! That tore me apart! It sucked.... we were eachothers first kiss, and first love and I know It will be some time before I'm over him. I know one thing... I don't ever want to just forget him. And... well were still friends.

thanks for all the help btw!

much love,
-Mols

let him go for 3 months then if you cant go after him