Unsure

  • .x.PorteR.x.
    20 years ago

    I know this will probably seem a bit petty, but i'm sort of confused about something..

    I've liked this guy for a while [almost a whole year] and i can't seem to get over him. He knows that i like him, and i've bgun to notice lately that when i look over at him he's usually looking at me. He doesn't talk to me much but when he does, i always get all nervous around him, but he's always really nice to me and stuff. I guess you actually have to see him, but i think he might like me.

    I'm just a little confused as to what to do. I mean, i like him, and he knows that, so if he likes me back why doesn't he tell me?

    Sorry to... be annoying, but yeah.

    xox, PorteR

  • .x.PorteR.x.
    20 years ago

    Thanks girl. I took a look and read it and everything, and perhaps i should just get over him. I mean, i've tried... but i guess i should try harder.

    Anyway, thanks for your help :D

  • Lexi Lou
    20 years ago

    your not annoying

  • Hope
    20 years ago

    I believe the guy you like is shy or cautious in revealing his true feelings to you. From my experience, shy ppl tend to merely glance at the ones they like, but never make the first move
    In fact, I'm shy and the girl i like is extremly shy so u know what i did? I said to myself, do you want to regret letting her slip through your fingers while knowing that there could be a chance of a successful relationship and perhaps finding the love of my life? After all, what do i have to lose? The next thing i did was plan a speech and i invited her to the school formal. In your case, let me ask you this. Wouldn't it be less of a burden to stop wondering whether he likes me or not? Furthermore, it could help you get over him.
    So my point is that sometimes you have to make the first move, though it is the hardest, but in my opinion it is well worth it. Don't be shy :)
    I wish you all the best of luck! :)

  • Megha
    20 years ago

    go ahead and tell him.
    its not wrong 4 u to make the 1st move and if u think he likes u back...do it before its too late...strike the iron while its hot...before he starts getting interested in other girls....while ure still unsure....

  • Megha
    20 years ago

    i know its easier said than done...but just GO 4 IT!!!
    and then ull laugh at how apprehensive u were before u did it.

  • .x.PorteR.x.
    20 years ago

    Yeah it is easier said than done...

    I'm still not sure... perhaps i should go for it, but the problem is that if i midjudged him and he doesn't like me, i'll look like a fool. I don't know him that well, so perhaps i should get to know him better and see how he reacts??

    Thx for all your help, by the way.