what can i do?

  • Brandi
    18 years ago

    has anyone ever met a guy whom they liked veary much but he had a girlfriend? well i have. i met him at a festival but new him from school... he told me he wanted to pretend that he didn't have a girlfriend, so i went along with him.... the next time i saw him he told me thta he broke up with her for me, i knew it was true because i new some of her friends.
    we have been together for 3 1\2 weeks and so far we are happy but i often wonder if he will do to me what he did to his ex.

    WHAT SHOULD I DO?

  • SplitSided
    18 years ago

    all is fair in love an war...you can relate these 2 because it's kill or be killed what you need to do is keep him on edge let him know that he is disposable as are you...if you let him know that you are willin to drop him then he's gonna know that you aren't messin around...after that the ball is in his court and he has to make the move...kill or be killed...the choice is all up to him...and less stress for you...then you can pretend you don't have a bf...what you think..hit me back

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    umm for me guys like that will do the same but u never know!!!

  • ashleeey
    18 years ago

    Pshh.
    This guy's a loser.
    He's most likely just gunna find another, "better" girl and drop you for her.
    Ugh.
    Guys like that just need to be dumped.
    So you should just kick him to the curb.
    And rub it in his face real good.
    Hehe..

    But it happened to my bffl, and it hurt her really badly. I just don't want it to happen to you. ;]

  • BECCA lessTHANthree
    18 years ago

    wow.. i think its kinda a sticky situation because i am a strong believer in true love.. and i dont think that anyone can judge weather or not you should stick with this guy.. i mean yeah what he did was messed up to his ex but that doesnt mean he's gonna do it to you.. maybe he didnt really like her .. or maybe he's just a jerk.. but people change.. and the only person who can say weather or not what you have going is going to last is you..