Lost...

Hey,
Once again i need advice i'm not entirely sure that i'm gonna use the advice that you give me but it's good to know that someone has 2 cents and i wanna hear yours the title of this topic is lost because i am lost..I've got a girlfriend and a son but my gf and I aren't gettin along my son is inbetween us and were always at eachothers throats i thought i knew where i was standing but i can't find where i am anymore maybe the spark between us is gone...and were circling the drain..or maybe we've already gone down the drain and i didn't see it..i jus wanna know what to do...

It's never fair to stay in a bad relationship where a child is involved.. I think You need to sit down and speak to your girlfriend and see if there is a chance You can resolve the relationship.. If there doesn't seem to be away to do this where You are all happy You need to end the relationship.. Your son will be upset at first but as long as You both let him know that each of You love him and will both be there for him, it will be better for him in the long run..

I stayed with my husband for 3 years in a relationship that wasn't going well because I didn't want to break our family up and that hurt the children more than if we had gone our seperate ways.. It isn't fair for children to be brought up in a war zone. My kids were upset for a while, but now they are much happier not to have to hear me and their dad arguing.. Also they get 2 christmas's and stuff and think it's great lol

It sounds like you need to sit down and talk with her about what you are feeling. You need to tell her how you feel about the relationship and what it means to you or something. I am sorry that I can't help you more but I really don't know what to say. Good luck.

-Jenna.