Hitting women

Bob, now that is a powerful statement my friend...here here *raises glass*

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"Do not make friends with a hot-tempered man, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn his ways and get yourself ensnared"
Proverbs 22:24-25

"An angry man stirs up dessension, and a hot-tempered one commits many sins"
Proverbs 29:22

Its obvious that you love this girl and would do anything for her. I'm sure she knows that. You'll just make things worse if you start things with this guy. Use your head and follow God and pray your heart out...all will be okay.
God Bless

Like support her, support her, and tell her whatever shes does you will continue to support her!

bob, i like the way you think =)

as for you ~{Ð3@D §ØÚL ~™, you need to spell your words better because your post is very unclear.
"thanks for reding this"
"beleive in cheatin"
"cos she is perfect "
"he wont lewt her "
"but we spit and "
yeah, and theres many more mistakes in there.

ok, so i had to read that over twice to get a better understanding.
first of all, this guy who's hitting her is really pissing me off. ok sorry, i needed to get that off my chest.
second of all, what she needs to do is to leave him now. you said that she says it's not that she can't, he won't let her? uhh, first of all he doesn't even have the power not to let her leave him, and if he thinks he does, he deserves a beating himself. she really needs to get the police involved, before he kills her. The relationship will only get worse, as will the beatings. DON'T go "looking" for him, beating him up will land BOTH of you in jail, and that won't be too good. The longer you wait, the worse the situation will become. if she doesn't get the police involved, then you should. even if it makes her even more unhappy, it'll totally be worth it in the end. seriously, he could do something even more horrible to her than hes already done. he's done enough damage.

One question: Does she have any bruises or scars as a result from his beatings? if so, use this as evidence against him.

also, you said shes had an abusive boyfriend before, then she really needs to learn how to choose better boyfriends, she need's to learn how to make better choices.

"Amendment IV

The right of the people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized."

it says in this excerpt from the constitution, that people have the right to be secure in their persos, and houses. which means he has NO RIGHT to enter her house without her consent, and if he makes her feel unsafe in his own home, she can call the police.

good luck, hopefully i helped.

That's awesome.

Solve violence with more violence.

I'm sure Lani will appreciate it when she come home to another beating, because her ex boyfriend beat up her boyfriend.

Hitting females is a big no-no. Don't promote it.

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Hittiong ANYONE is a big nono.. sheesh...

I know someone who beat another person up because that person insulted his mother... and he felt horribly guilty a few hours later.
So, you practically said it yourself.. the best thing to do is look out for Lani and make sure that her ex can't get to her. Punching someone up will only cause more trouble.

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thats terrible i think you should report him i was in her position amost 5 months ago this dude wouldnt stop beating me up and i was too scared to leave he said he would kill me so another guy came in my life and the dude got in a bad wreck and broke his back so i broke up wit him and he hasnt done anything to me so tell her hes all talk i came home wit bruises on me so i kno what its like but the longer she stays the harder it is to get out this dude was 6ft 3 200+ im 5ft 4 126 so it wasn5t fair tell her to get help cuz if not this could turn dangerous he'll just keep gettin worse....peace

Even if she doesn't want to deal with the hassle, the police is still the better option.

What I see, you
a. Go to jail for assaulting him or
b. Have him going to jail for beating her.

I would pick B, because in her eyes, even if she sees what you did gave her hassle you're still being level-headed, if you know what I mean.

first would like to say that your love for her is clearly pure, she is your everything :o) it's very hard to advise you as it doesnt matter how much we tell you our views its really your desicion and hers. buty if i said that and meant it, it would be wrong of me, so here goes.... i think you should get her out of that situation which is easy said then done, but who knows what he's capable of doing:s that thought scares me!!! i would hate for it to go to far and you get a phone call from hospital telling you bad news concerning her. it's so hard as she would rather not have police involved, could you possibly see her alone and talk with her tell her she needs to do this for her health but more importantly for herself!!! hold your hand out to her and let her stay with you i dont know if i've helped and i hope it has abit god bless you both and please do takecare mel xxx
i do not blame you for getting angry with this animal(cant even call him a man) as no man should ever raise his hand to a women!!!! she doesnt need all the violence she needs YOU, please try and avoid violence as it may make him more angry and upset and he could lash out more at your love. takecare mel xxx

Tell her how u feel; if she's your everything, u don't want her to die, right? My advice is get her away from him... then call the police. If he tries to atk her, defend her. It's horrible to know the person you love is getting hurt!

Ok either police should know or you could take care of it if ya get my meaning....look just try to get her out...tell her to get a restraining order against him its the only way!
Amanda

im hoping this doesnt come out wrong so sorry if i sound heartless.
i had a boyfriend who hit me and he continued to until i stood up to him.you dant back down, she has to get in his face and show him shes not gona take it.it doesnt matter how big he is,
"The bigger they are, the harder they fall"
and if he is bigger, grab something, a lamp, a bat, anything.guys are like *sorry* dogs.you have to show them that they arent the "masters"

something has to be done about it. a confrontation, talking to an outside person, anything, but domestic violence is a disgusting, vile problem that so many women (and even men) face and it should stop. if you can't feel safe with the person who's supposed to love you, then when the hell are you supposed to feel safe???

When a male beats a woman he doesn't deserve the title as a man he is even lower than a boy, and child, he is dirt and thats all he'll ever be if he thinks he has to beat a woman to feel powerful well he really isn't powerful at all, the woman aint the weak one he is.