I have fallen in love with the wrong person...

  • Rebecca
    18 years ago

    There is this guy in a few of my classes. I have loved him since 7th grade, and my love for him is still going. I know it's love because he has made me cry, for sadness and for happiness. He is kind, gentle, and thoughtful, he is caring and compassionate, and he is handsome. Not hot, handsome, which is more important. He can be prejudice at times, but thats the least of my worries. Everyone thinks he's awesome, and he's friends with girl and boy alike. but then i found out he's not allowed to date. That night i cried. I love him so much, and i want him more than anything in the world. I have finally found someone i want to spend my whole life with. And he has slipped out of my hands. I have fallen in love with the wrong person.

  • Jessica
    18 years ago

    don't rush things my friend!!! if its really love, it will wait. It will make it that much better in the long run. Just because you can't date him doesn't mean that he's the wrong person.

    True Love Waits!!

    true love waits, no matter how long it takes. if you were in love with someone who lived a million miles away, and they were in love with you--it would wait. when the time is right..it will come. Until then be patient.
    God Bless!!

  • Rebecca
    18 years ago

    youre realy good at giving advice! ^_^
    It's hard to wait for love, being the love-obssessed person i am. But i'll try to wait, and i hope the time will come, because i want so much, and i am so desperate, for him to love me.

  • Jessica
    18 years ago

    ~ lol..thanks
    Just remember that you can't make him love you. If you love him and he loves you--wait!! Just make sure that you're not wasteing your time on something that will never happen. I waited on what I thought was meant to be for 3 years. I found out that what I thought was right, actually wasn't. But you know what?? I don't regret it at all, because even though I didn't get what I thought I wanted, I got something even better, and I found a guy who loves me more than I could ever imagine. It's all worth it sweetie..believe it.
    God Bless

  • Atomic
    18 years ago

    Just because he can't date now, doesn't mean he can't date later.

    His parents can't control him for the rest of his life.

    If you can wait for him since the seventh grade, then a few more years can't possibily kill you or your love.

    Don't be so quick as to say you've fallen for the wrong person, when you haven't given it a chance.

    If you still think you've really fallen for the wrong person, then keep this in mind.

    You were never really in love.

    ( )_( )
    (='.'=)
    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Let Me Be Your Happily Ever After
    18 years ago

    Sweetheart, You Are 14...
    Inhale
    Now Exhale.

    Okay.
    Im Not Saying You Are Too Young, But I Know For A Fact That By Building This All Up In Your Mind, Makes Life Seem So Much Worse Than It Is. I Want You To Think About It, Logically And With Reason, Which I Know Can Be Hard, But He Will Eventually Be Allowed To Date, And In The Meantime, Go On A Few Dates Yourself, Allow Your Self Room To Breathe Without Him Consuming Your Thoughts. You Need A Break From This Guy-Induced Stress.

    Good Luck.
    XO

  • krysten
    18 years ago

    you haven't fallen in love with the wrong person its just a trying time. love goes through tests and this is a little bump if you really are meant to be give it time and it will be even if you date some one else ok good luck keep us informed.

  • ILOVEWAFFLES
    18 years ago

    look, i dont know how old you are...but you say your inlove...with the wrong person...what the hell?
    No...okay how old is he? If hes not aloud to date, then hes either about 13 years old OR his parents are freaky hardcore christians. So, you ask him how he feels about his "not a loud to dateness" if
    he agrees with his parents...then he obviously doesnt want to date you back...and if he wants to date you but is too sheltered by stupid parents...then screw the parents....just be "his friend" and date him in secret...unless thats too much for you....;)

  • ILOVEWAFFLES
    18 years ago

    by the way this is a different Jessica then the one way above

  • xxmichaelxx
    18 years ago

    he's not allowed to date? so...........................just wait! i'm not allowed too. does he kno u love him? and does he love u back?

    xxleisaxx