How do i know when to let go?

  • XxFallenxFromxGracexX
    18 years ago

    I seem to find it hard to know when to let go of friendships...im a person that wants my friendships to last forever and i will try my hardest to keep them alive...but sometimes i feel like the friendship is one sided...like they dnt appricate me and how much i love them...how am i supposed to know when to let go...or when to keep fighting...?

    Luv FallenxFromxGrace

  • lakitu
    18 years ago

    you will know when it is time to let go. i don't think anyone realises how much it hurts to loose a best friend until it happens to them.

    There is no point holding on just for the sake of it, there are millions of other people on this planet and one day you will find someone that you can talk to all the time without your friendship going stale.

    if you feel they they don't appreciate you... there is a chance that they don't. so get out there and find someone who does.

    your worth it.

    Hippie
    xxxx

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    I know how your feeling.
    But like Hippie said, when it's time to give it up, you just know.
    You deserve to be appreciated
    *Gem*

  • XxFallenxFromxGracexX
    18 years ago

    Thanks guys!!! it means so much that you would take the time to help woth advice!!!!
    Luv u all

    FallenxFromxGrace xoxo

  • ShootingStar179
    18 years ago

    Hey. I am just like you! I always want to have the best of friends forever. And it's SO hard to let them go. But when you realize the time with them is not all you want from a friend, that's when you let go. If you notice the friend is struggling, that could be the reason the friendship is one-sided. Okay? I hope I helped!

  • XxFallenxFromxGracexX
    18 years ago

    thanx u did help!!!

  • Jen
    18 years ago

    I know the feeling sooooo well,
    but i do tend to keep hold of friendships too long and i just end up gerrin hurt i know i should let go but its hard,
    but i reckon you know when you have given it your all and taken all the shit and disrespect possible to be taken.
    it gets too much and makes you emotionally break down which is what i feel like now so yeh u will know when to let go =] and it WILL benefit you in the end!
    im late to this thread but thought ide say my piece!

    ~*~Jen~*~

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    18 years ago

    You'll just know when to let go.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Well I have seen alot of friends come and go in my years. I believe no TRUE friendship actually dies, some just grow apart while others grow together. Unfortunately you will grow apart from more friends than you will sustain for life...its just part of the process be thankful for the beautiful friends that you do have!