what is this?...ur opinion...peez

say there is this guy...you are friends...you know and seen how he treated his girlfriends...lied cheated talked about them...then one day he asks you out tellin you how much he likes you and whatnot...would you have tried out the relationship? thinkin u would be different? or would you have said yes and then ditched him the next day...giving him a taste of his own medicine?

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a slut, always a slut.

He won't change.
Even if he says he will/can.
Protect yourself and don't believe.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

"Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a slut, always a slut."

Hehe. I like that one and i mostly agree with it too

Ok. Well for the sake of my own heart, I'm hoping my beliefs will follow through.

I say, that people don't change often, or easily. But if they find a special person that gives them reason enough to, and loves them enough - and they love back...Then maybe it can happen.

However your situation doesn't quite seem like that. The chances of someone changing are near slim, so don't build yourself up for anything.

I wouldn't have believed he would change for me...and I didn't but after doin all that stuff to him I find myself thinkin would if he could change...cause he would make a good boyfriend if only he didn't cheat and lie all the time

The only sure thing in life is change.

i went through what your going through now people can change i dont believe the once a cheater always a cheater theory if someone who has been unfaithful finds someone that they really want to be with they do everything they can

dont believe!!!

They won't change, it's as simple as that.

I hate to be the one to say this, but...

Maybe he really -do- love you.

Won't you be willing to change for the person you love?

Geh...enough with the cheesy crap...odds are...he won't change.

Plus, what were you thinking when you started to "fool" with him?

Don't start what you can't finish, M'Dear.

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(")-(") Arrivederci!

I shouldn't have played with his feelings...now I'm regreting it...

I agree Bob. Being of the female persuation...LMFAO I know FIRST HAND just how slimy we can be...HAHAHAHAHAHA WE cheat and don't get caught...we lie damn GOOD...we're sneaky!!! HAHAHAHAHA

Disclaimer...when I say "we" I mean the general population...myself not to be included as I am far from the norm...I'd be willing to prove it to you if the given the opportunity...LMFAO

I believe people can change but not because other people want them too,they change when they look in the mirror and don`t like what they see there . what would make you think you would be any different than the others ? Don`t you think he said the same thing to them?

I wouldn't even consider going out with him until we've both gotten and matured.

I wouldnt even consider it. If i had heard those things about him i probably wont give it a second thought. You need to be with a guy that doesnt treat women like crap.
If hes done things like that in the past, what makes you think he'll all of a sudden change for you?

lmao Natalie84

and i think you shouldnt date him. seems like a jerk to me.

well thas what I did...well sumthin like it...lol I made him think we were goin out then i ditched him for another guy...twice...I played with his emotions makin him think he's the only guy and that were datin but i tell ppl were not....how evil am I?...