Three Of Hearts

I really hate writing in these discussion forums because I get annoyed with how many people are like OMG I like himmmm so muchhhhh and etc. But I really need someone elses perspective on my situation.

I like this guy, and we're good friends. But he likes another girl. And while I'm sitting there staring at him, he's sitting there staring at her.

I want to tell him so bad, because I've felt this way for a long time, but I don't want him to end up not talking to me because he might feel akward knowing I like him when he doesn't like me.

Aghh so complicated. I don't know what to do. Any advice?

Been there a couple times..what you need to do is ask yourself a single and simple question..."how far will you go to get what you want?"...if you can answer that then i guess the thought of him not talking to you won't phaze you cause if you really want him then i guess that it would all add up to you ultimately talking to him about it and seein where it goes from there...if you don't then your gonna be stuck wondering what if...so lose the fear of silence and go ask him..it can't be that hard..hit me back...tell me how it goes...

Your both in the same situation, even if it's not the same object of desire.
I agree with split sided, don't live with 'whats if's?'
It's not worth it, i took the plunge instead of standing aside and now we're marrying in 2008.
You never know, thats whats so great about life.
Go for it hun, reach for the stars
*Is getting waaaay to corny now* =)
Good luck!
xxx

It is a very awkward situation that you're in. It is like when you break up and the hardest part is knowing that you're not over him but he is already moving on. I hate that feeling. And that is what I got out of your situation even though I know that isn't what it is lol.

All that I can say is - although he may seem like he isn't interested in you but rather into this other girl; tell him how you feel. You will never know what could have been if you do not express how you feel. I'm sorry hunn, I wish that I could help you more. Good luck though.

-Jenna.

Now, if you don't like people complaining, why did you?
But, I can understand that you need help. Kind of.

And, how sure are you that you like this guy and it is not infactuation(Spelling?). Like everyone other 'I am in love' posts. I know you didn't say you were in love, but you get my point.
My advice:
Tell him.
What happens if the boy actually likes you, but is too afraid to tell you because you guys are so close? Or, perhaps, once you tell him you like him, he'll warm up to the idea and realize he has always liked you.
Tell him.
Don't beat around the bush.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

just talk to him. whats the worst that can happen?! if it all goes horribly wrong, at least you can laugh about it instead of looking back in a few years thinkin "i wish i had..."

If you are staring at him and he is staring at her then I can help but ask then who she is staring at?

Thanks so much for all your advice. I'm thinking of telling him today.

I'm not sure who the other girl is staring at. I don't know much about her and I don't want to get involved with her.

The thing is, he talks to me about her and he told me he likes her and blahh. We always had these conversations before about how our relationships with other people always turned out bad and how we never want to date people again (even though thats not true.) Then out of nowhere, he tells me he has girl problems and spilled the beans that he likes this girl 'Kate'. I was crushed, that was when I figured out that I had feelings for him this whole time..

aww..thats to sad i feel so sad for you...you know i know alot of poeple like thats..and you should just tell him how you feel...and its ok as long as you know you told him!!!

Thanks. :]