how will u feel if your best friend and you like the same guy?

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    for me i dont know lets see who he like more!!!

  • xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex
    18 years ago

    You're pretty heartless...

    xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

  • Normal is the Watchword
    18 years ago

    Agree that he's not worth fighting over

  • dark blue eyes
    18 years ago

    some boy isn't worth losing a friendship over

  • The Angel of Secrets
    18 years ago

    I would feel that my friend should have a shot, instead of me...

  • DeathsRose
    18 years ago

    Well me and my cousin really liked the same guy...so we asked him to choose, and he chose me. She was pissed at both of us (even though we never started going out or anything like that). Now I'm best friends with him and I havn't spoken to her in over a year.

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    If me and my best friend had a thing for the same guy, we would both swear off him. There's no way I'm throwing away my best friend of 12 years for any male on this planet.

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    true boys isnt worth losing a friend!!!

  • ashley
    18 years ago

    if shes yo friend she will back off....so i say go ahead im in the situation where my bestfriend wants my man and she isnt really a friend i guess.....listen to your head cuz a heart can be a little unclear if there is love in tha air.....

  • emmerz
    18 years ago

    well, theres a guy i like, and my friend comments every once and a while about how nice he is, or hints that she likes him...but she knows i liked him first.... if you guys can agree on a solution, then by all means, figure it out... or you can just give it time- for either of you, it might just be a spontaneous crush. if neither of those work, i think both of you should choose your friendship over a guy.. trust me, you dont want to lose a friendship that way

  • BrokenREALiTy
    18 years ago

    That happens to me often .
    Like last year, there were two situations :

    1. This guy D____ right ? Well he liked me, I liked him . We ended up going out . A couple of my friends liked him and I didn`t know, but because of that, they supported me && him . But then he dumped me cush` of a rumor that someone started .

    2. Then I went out with his best friend S____ two months later . They ended up breaking apart and it turned out that a whole group of my friends liked S . Which was really bad because they were the extremely jealous type . Due to me dating S, I ended up losing a whole group of friends, and gaining like 20 new enemies that I didn`t even know .

    But if he likes you, yur friend shuld be happy for the two of yu . But if he liesk yu 'more,' then fkcu the dude, he ain`t worth it . And honestly, if yu two get into a fight cuhs` of that or w.e, losing a BEST friend over a guy ain`t worth it .
    ..ღ__MiNDYY

  • CHOKE
    18 years ago

    the guy will choose whoever he wants, no one should get mad theres no reason to get upset because in a few months they will most likely have broken up...blah blah, fighting over boys is retarded. its not worth it.

  • MischieviousMya
    18 years ago

    wow crazy subject lol =D

    like said above a guy isnt worth losing a friend over. point blank.

  • 4evabroken
    18 years ago

    one word...."SHARE"...LMAO....I'm so evil...j/k a guy isn't worth breakin up any friendship...there are plenty of other guys out there...

  • Taco
    18 years ago

    well i would talk to them but in my case my "friend" already has a boyfriend and is all over the guy i like

  • Kaleigh
    18 years ago

    yea, my case is like Jesi's...i liked a guy for like a long time and then so did this other girl...i had someone talk to him for me and the guy ended up getting mad at me (he hasn't talked to me for like a month or so) and he is all over the girl who was talkn to him for me...it sux b/c i really liked him and the girl he "likes" still has a boyfriend and everything!!

  • Silent Screams
    18 years ago

    i've done this many times..i like him first but he likes her and she likes the attention she gets from him...wiht one friend it got so bad that i just can't be around her now,but if you can aviod liking the same guy try really hard to,cause it hurts when you lose you best friend

  • Jenni
    18 years ago

    it happened to me once. my friend dated this guy and then he dumped her, and then he asked me out 2 weeks after they stopped dating. i felt kind of heartless about it, but my friend didn't feel any remorse toward me.

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    I agree with a lot of the posts above, a guy isn't worth losing a friend; especially your best friend.

    When it happens with me and my friends we both just forget about the guy, or one of us will tell the other to go for it. But even when that happens we both still won't date him.

  • Mitsuki
    18 years ago

    Friends are more important than some boy.

  • Dacey Flame
    18 years ago

    Me and my best friend both liked my boy, but she could just tell I liked him more, and so when he liked me she wasn't mad or anything.

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    18 years ago

    I've always let my friend have the guys she liked. And I gave her my friend who was like a brother *that I happened to like at that time* to him. Now she's not happy with him because hes always busy and crap like that. She liked this guy I liked and I told her that to just leave the guy situation alone and that she had her own boyfriend. Ended up the guy liked me alot better and yeah, I bi*ched her out so bad that I hated how she kept jumping to other guys all the time and she just needed to handle being alone sometimes.

    My boyfriend and me dont get to see eachother like Betty and Greg do. Me and Chris live in different towns. I also yelled at her that if she wanted to go out with Chris which will never happen that she wont even be able to talk to him because she has no phone or way to go see him or anything like that.

    I'm not making any sense right now so yeah. I'm hyper :D.! Well Kinda.