Destiny and Fate.

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    I believe we are in charge of our own. I mean, it isn't like our lives are scripted on the silver screens to work out to either a happy ending or an open ending where - what if? Could have been the question. All things play a role in what is to come in your life, so just think decisions through and think wisely.

    As for the soulmates - go after what you want. Life meets no one half way so if you want something; you have to go out and get it.

    -Jenna.

  • sibyllene
    18 years ago

    I do believe in free will, but I've felt fate too strongly to speak against its existence. I think with destiny, there may be a path that you are called towards, or a life that you are meant for, but it's up to you whether you accept it or not. Usually, i think what you are meant for is simply the thing that is best for you to do.

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    I believe in fate 100%
    From experience =)

  • RainbowSlider
    18 years ago

    I think it is all about making choices.

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    Yeah.. but is the choices we make destiny/fate...? Lol
    I like this topic

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    wow!!! i never think about that...but for me now i dont have fate in love and also dont believe in destiny...i guess am to broken for those thing i just dont care....if we are meant to be we are meant to put it that way!!!

  • xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex
    18 years ago

    I believe everything but love is a destiny that is mapped out. I believe everything has happened for a reason and by our actions we can change what happens. It's like those old Goosebump books; you can choose what you would do and see what happens. Love is not mapped out and you CAN find the one you truly love, but most do not find true love.

    Does any of that make sense?

    xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

  • Void
    18 years ago

    Well. I believe you make your own choices, and you set your own path. Would it be fair to say that people with good jobs got there because of destiny's good luck, or their own hardwork. (Given some may seem like good luck. lol) Honestly, I think that everything does happen for a reason, but not necissarily because it was 'meant to be'. When someone makes a decision, does he/she not plan or think it through first? Considering their own consiquences before jumping the gun?
    Sure people might hit some lucky ones, and win the lottery - but they decided to buy that lottery ticket in the first place:others that didn't take that risk, don't get to enjoy the luxury of 'good luck and great destiny'.

    But...This is just my opinion.

  • waiting 4 some1
    18 years ago

    well, of corse everything that happening to us is by fate but we have the will to do. what i mean is that we conrol our actions but under the control of our god and fate. it's a control under a control. as simple as that (^-^)

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    ^^ Now that is the best answer so far!! =)