do u ever feel like dis?

wel i've been thinking alot about death. i guess u can say it's mostly because i've been messing up alot lately and i just dont feel like dealing with it anymore. my friends are fake, my boyfriend loves me but no one can stand seeing us together, my parents are on my bak for any little thing, and school is really stressing me out. i know im making it seem like no big deal but trust me its way worse than this. i just feel like dying is the only way out of all of this. after i die i dont have to deal with this shit no more.

plz help me out, i really need advice!

well my advice [even tho i'm 12] lol...the only advice is not to kill urself. i've been through this like months ago and sometimes i still feel like this....but anyways, ur life is really IMPORTANT to a lot of ppl even tho u think it's not. if u ver kill urself, ur friends MIGHT even miss you and ur family OF COURSE!!! ur BF loves u, good thing u have a bf but anyways, it's ok. DON'T GIVE UP YET! u don't even kno if ur "AFTER LIFE" is going to be BETTER! it's NOT!!!! god gave u life, don't waste it! haven't u seen old ppl wanting to be like child so they don't want to get old and old until they die. wait for it, don't rush it! just take ur mind off that SUBJECT and go have a great time! Don't EVER give up!!!!!!

take care

xxleisaxx

dont kill yourself.
a friend told me that he believed that life was hell.. actual hell. its not though, because you can always make things better for yourself.

and if you love your boyfriend then dont care about what anyone else thinks. and i think its about time to get some new friends if you feel that way. dont kill yourself. life is precious and your a kid and you should be enjoying it. talk to your parents how school is stressing you out. dont be so up tight and worry about your problems. just chill out, your problems will come undone once to relax and take a step back. good luck with any dicision you make.

Many people see as killing yourself is brave. I think its just an easy way out, and it will hurt everyone that cares for you.

Live the life that you have gotten, embrace it's ups and downs.

The brave thing to do, is to just deal with it.

Here's something crazy and original. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start living.

Hey I heart crazy and original...But I won't be too bad I promise.
Firstly - if your boyfriend loves you, why do you need anyone to approve? I realize people are important to you, and maybe their views are too, but you've got one person you know will never turn his back on you. He loves you. Do you love him back? I'm going to guess that you don't, because if you're willing to kill yourself than you don't care so much about how much he may get hurt... Realize the selfishness of that idea now?

Secondly: school is only the first part of your life. Don't let it stress you out. If you fail something, make up for it in something else. Find a hobby you enjoy, you've got the rest of your life to stress yourself out, the rest of your life to finish school (but come on - the sooner the better, we both know it)... Hell, if you don't kill yourself, you'll have the whole rest of your life to experience happiness.

Thirdly: Parents get on your case because they love and care about you, and want the best for you. (Of course this is me assuming that they only get on your case with words and advice, nothing abusive.) And if you've got the love and caring nature of both parents, than you're already one lucky son of a... Well, daughter... But anyway...

You get it?

Count your blessings, not your troubles.
Make your own happiness possible.
Live, Love,and Learn. :)

Please people. DO NOT KILL YOURSELVES.. All of us go through problems like this everyday of our lives but you don't just go around saying you want to die. Pull yourself together, deal with it. Your life is not going to be like this forever, so even if it is bad now it will get better.

yep yep^^^^ they all say NO KILLING!!!!!!!!!^^^^yep yep..........it's not the right answer for ur problems. if ur friends don't really care about you cz they don't like ur bf talk to them! i'd do that! hell yea! tell them how u feel.

don't be suicidal just to get attention [that's wat i used to do] and don't cry [they'll think ur a wimp] just go out there and screamat the and tell them how u f***ing feel!

xxleisaxx

ok i speak from x-preince here.
dont kill urself, it may b a way 2 stop ur pain, but think of all ur friends & fam wholl miss u.
my good friend killed himself 3 yrs ago & alot of us still rnt ok w/ his death & alot of us will never b cuz he didnt die like he was meant 2.and it is ok 2 cry, it shows ur friends that what they r doin hurts u cuz sumtimes hearin it and seein it is 2 diff. things & it often helps 2 c.
hope i helped.keep ur head ^ babe.

To think about death isn't strange, most people do it at some stage or another, but to focus and obsess on it is morbid and unhealthy.
-If you mess up, take responsibility for your actions and better the situation, and then move on having learnt your lesson.
-If your friends are fake, find a better group who aren't and are able to offer you the support you need
-Your boyf loves you how bad can life really be when you have someone that loves and cares for you
-If people can't stand seeing you together, thats there problem not yours so count your blessings and be happy, they'll get over it eventually and if not at least you have each other
-Your parents are probably on your back for good reason, they only want the best for you afterall. It may seem hard to realise this now but eventually you will thank them. If you want to be treated like an adult start acting like one. If you want your folks off your back...then behave yourself!

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, things will get better for you you just have to face facts and learn to deal with your problems or accept them as things you cannot control and move on :o)

Best of luck

Well there have been times i feel like killin my self,,, and i even tried in every way... and ended up in the ER... but thats not the answer! you are strong and you can fight it... thats what i have learned... Life is hard... but you need to be tough... now things may seem hard and all... but things would work out real soon... pain dont last forever... But if you die... you would have to deal with much more than now... u may not see that... but believe me you dont wanna die... it aint fun at all...

If you have people that love and care about you, like your boyfriend, wouldn't your death make them miserable? People who love sucidal people often blame themselves when that person commits sucide, even if that person tells them it wouldn't be their fualt.

Stay at least for your boyfriend, and yes I understand the crappy friend part. They may be hard to get away from at first, which is why you need to befriend another group or person even before you leave your fake friends. Understand that you can't always be understood, and can't always get your way. Accept it, everyone has to deal with it.

Parents can only controll you for so long, and then you're out of the house controlling your own life, look forward to then and focus on getting to that point.

School can be stressfull, but once again, if you try you'll most likely graduate on time, after all D is passing. After you graduate it's once again up to you what you do.

Get through each day and know that eventually everything will work itself out in one way or another. Time does a lot. Try not to sweat the small things, and do what you need to, like home work, without that unnessary whinning about how hard it's going it be.

Death is not an answer, it hurts the community around you more then it helps you.

I also think about death as the easy way out of my problems. The boy that I knew for 8 years decide to cheat on me with a gurl that he is going out with for 3yrs. My parents told me to drop out of school on my senior year. I told them no. I feel so depressed and Like I said I rather die. But then I think God just give me these taks to see how strong I am and to make me stronger. I live each day slow by slow. My friends tell me don't feel that way but they don't know how much it hurts and how pain feels. The only thing I can say is that live each day slow and slow and later everthing well fall into place.

Lilybeth. I realize you probably didn't mean for it to come out the way it did: but my friend always comes to me for comfort and one day when she told me I didn't feel, it hurt and it made me angry all at the same time. Everybody's got their own little problems (or big problems), and even though some people don't have as many problems, or maybe they just don't speak of them, everybody has feelings. You can't say that your friends don't know how pain feels. Everybody does.
So I don't mean to be grumpy with you, and if you didn't mean it that way than I'm sorry to even point it out. I just don't think that anyone has the right to say that.

I was saying that they don't know the pain that am feeling. They say its going to be okay but they understand half the things that' has happen to me

you gotta chill out, and dont worry bout what any1 say's. it's your life so live it your way....ive been thro this shit 2, but i only have my mom, she pisses me off a lot, cuz ive done drugs, heavy drugs. ive never known my dad, he left wen i was 2, and came 2 see me once wen i was 8, he acted like nothing happened and every thing was normal, that visit was a 1 time thing, havent seen him since....i fell inlove, things were great, i had all i ever wanted. but he left me, i guess i wasnt good enough! my point is that you aint the only 1 who goes thro this. ive been betrayed by my dad, my bf and my friends. people dont except me 4 who i am. ive gone thro so much, but i was smart enuf to quit drugs, i was only like 9 wen i started, and now i'm 14 and clean. dont do anything stupid, love yourself, and be who u are inside, and do wat u love and understand! thats my advice to you....dont worry bout your parents, or your friends, if u love your bf then be with him, and if no 1 can except that then fuck them, it's all up 2 u!

Well, first off, suicide is for wimps. Prove that you're better then that.

Second off, there's a wheel in life. Sometimes you're rotated onto the low part, sometimes it's a hard part. The thing you have to remember is that it'll just keep turning, things will get better things will get worse.

I had an aunt that killed herself, and I define suicide by that. I'm still angry about it, and don't even think that death is worth all the good things in life.