im so scared and depressed...HELP

okay me and my man have been together for awhile now and its serious...well i introduce him to my friends and there is a girl who always goes runnin to him my supposedly best friend....shes always sayin she loves him and one nite she kissed him on tha cheek good nite shes always demanding me to call him and everything he acts like nothin is happenin he says he only wants me but why does he let this happen?im on probation so i cant get in a fight.....i already done 11 months...ill be 18 soon....but i honestly kno this guy is my completion ive been in alot of relationships and im ready to settle down he is too...this gurl is 18 already...please tell me what to do......i love him without him i cant make it im goin thru alot a crap right now i am from a broken home of meth addicts and alcholics and everything else...ive been in 20 different foster homes...i need a support system that will help me i write poetry i just found this site yesterday its helped me some.....

Despite what they tell you in the movies...don't fight for love.

If he really loves you then he wouldn't allow this type of stuff to happen.

On the bright side, maybe he's just too polite.

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how do i get this gurl away from him tho? i would die for him and shes putting moves on him...well he says what is on his mind and is very blunt about things.....i dunno it just scares me that i might lose him and i love him more than anyone in the world he is all i have....

Talk to him about it. Straight up, tell him exactly how you feel. Then do the same thing with the girl. Say it nice and politely though. And the girl above me is right. Don't fight for love, it's never worth it.

im afraid to talk about it to him because i dont want him to think im jealous and dramatic....if i tell the grl she'll tell me im imagining things...i iintroduced the 2 thinkin that they could be friends Without benefits....hes so sweet and goodlooking that all the grls crowd around him....he helped me get out of a relationship where a guy was abusing me in every way.....he doesnt cheat but a guy is a guy and grls will be grls....he hates cheaters and has never cheated on someone....how do i even begin to tell him all of this i feel so lost and im hurt...

its just easier said then done....i wish people were not so fake and was 4 real...ecspecially ur so called friends

Trust me you have no friends in these world. The only thing I can tell you is that no man is worth your tears and if they are worth your tears then they won't make you cry.

Hmmm hard one. Your situation is tricky and I can totally understand how you are feeling depressed, but do not get in a physical fight about this, no good could come of it! If he truly is the man for you then surely you could just talk to him and make him understand that although he doesn't like the girl, he should tell her to stop as you're not comfortable with the situation. And as for her, surely if she was such a great friend she would understand that whilst you are with him, she can't be.

okay i talked to him this weekend it didnt go well he said i didnt have ne thing to worry about then this weekend she kissed him again i got really mad and so i decided ide talk to him bout it soon my perfect chance came when she was huggin on him i flipped out when we were outside alone he doesnt understand how much this is bothering me...he just is tellin me he loves me......well then we finally got everything worked out and its cool until next weekend ill probably get all upset again....ne wayz i love him with all i have and he loves me too its just i get really upset when all of my friends are like hes so hott and ur so lucky and i wished he was mine...he is one of the sweetest guyz i guess he cant help it if hes wanted he also said he dont see what shes doing....

I was in that situation not so long ago with my so called best mate and in no uncertain terms (after brooding about it for ages) i told her where to go and after being terrified to tell my fiance about it in case he felt trapped, i told him and he confided that he was sick of her too. So we both told her to quit it.
She still wants him but since she knows we both hate her, she won't dare come near us.
I suggest you talk to him first, maybe in a jokey way at first and see what his reaction is.
And definitly (sp?) talk to her! If she's your friend, she has no right to be acting like this. There is such a thing as boundries.
Good luck hun. I hope it all works out!
*Gem*

im so weak...

ok i talked to him yesterday now he wants his dad and her mom to hook up....i told him that i was freaked out and i think the whole idea is weird...well he said its not weird....i told him if u say its not its not and im just paranoid...he tells me i have nuthin to worry about but we have a 10yr age difference so i figured hede understand but he dont...what do all of you guyz think do i have something to be worried about? is this whole situation a little funky to you guys too?
i really love him and i cant lose him right now i need him....im not sure who my father is so i went searching for him and found out who supposedly is...so we took a dna test on halloween and i if this guy is not my father its gonna kill me i hate waking up everyday and feeling my heart ache 24/7 also im the type of person who shuts down if i cant talk about somethin and i dont sleep so yea its been a wonderful life my mom sleeps around does drugs beat us up gets with a guy who tries to run me over with his car he tries to stab her witha knife we have no food nthing to drink but alchol my family is full of meth addicts i get tossed from foster home to foster home all over indiana then i get locked up do 11 months from running away and doin drugz..alchol...then now im on probation for poppin pills and overdosing my life is so awesome....what ever.....i dont even kno why im typin this crap noone cared when i was little when i got abused in everyway there is so why should they now im 17 and almost 18 and adult so noone cares.....

life is a waste of time....so is love cuz i always get screwed over