Question for the guys...and girls I guess

The only words I read were "I want to get my ex back." The only advice I have for you is wait.. My eyes happened to catch the words "It's been 3 days". You need to give him and yourself some time. All things happen for a reason.

Oh wow.. I read that entire post.. and all you can really do is just give it time.. Pushing yourself onto someone isn't going to make them want you anymore... if anything, they'll want you less... I know this from experience.. And the whole "hooking up" thing... don't do it... Because by doing that, you're not showing him you want him for a relationship... you are showing him that you are easy... Even if you aren't, that's the perception he's probably getting from it... If you want him, play hard to get... Guys like a challenge... I mean, come on... who doesn't?...

~BJ~

Ok, considering I'm the first teenage guy to reply.. the thing to do is nothing sexual to get someone back.

If you strip for him, he'll think 'oh you're easy' .. he'll screw you then leave you.

If he thinks hooking up is the only thing to do see emotions etc from anyone or himself, he's not worth it.

If you want someone back, you need to tell them straight out that you still like them and ask if they'll maybe give you another shot.

To answer your direct question.. there's no need to impress someone.

If a girl wanted me back, I wouldn't want her trying to impress me. I'd want her to be herself. Impressing someone by doing things isn't the real 'you'. I want a girl who can impress me by just being her every day self. Not by putting on an act, or doing things out of her way just to try and get me back.

If you are yourself, remain yourself and just be yourself around him and he doesn't accept you.. he's not worth it.

Look, if he wants you to please him sexually and you feel that's the way you'll get him back then by all means go for it. But I'm warning you now that if a guy wants a girl just for sexual activity, it's not worth even spending a minute talking to them about a relationship.

If you want any more help, feel free to PM me.

Though I hope I did help.

-Mark

Okay, first off, you seem too desperate. No affense but a guys not going to be interested in an ex who is desperate to be with him. Oh and im trying to impress him won't do much either. If all he wants you for is sex, he doesn't care about you. He's basically telling you that by fooling around with other girls. My advice to you is to move on. It's not the end of the world. He's just one guy. Besides that, it's only been 3 days. That's not long at all. In time, you will get over it. It is no reason to starve yourself. Your body needs nutrients to function properly. Wow, i'm sorry, but this seems so pathetic.