nikki
18 years ago
there is no easy way.. and pain doesnt ever fully go away.. BUT... tips are.. keep busy... get out there.. a wise women once told me.. every fling doesnt have to be the one.. youve got to stay strong and keep going... just think of what youve been missing!!! good luck! and try to avoid nights in alone... there suicidal! trust me! |
NoPatience
18 years ago
Alright, My FAV. Method- |
Just Sierra
18 years ago
Time. |
ShhhhItsASecret©
18 years ago
I agree with the post above mine. Time is the best way to get over a heart break, let alone anything actually. I honestly believe that you can get over anything with time. I mean, yeah, you'll still think about him once in a while, but you won't feel the pain in your heart when you do... eventually. Just try to pass the time by staying busy as someone else had posted above. It took me 8 months to get over my last ex. Don't expect an overnight cure, because there isn't one. |
The Angel of Secrets
18 years ago
"Time will heal a broken heart, as it is then ready to love again" |
MischieviousMya
18 years ago
some may say its simple because they feel that way. i, however dont. it definetly takes time. get yourself involved in a activity or do something to occupy your time. i mean honestly who ever said break-ups are easy??? =]] |
FAKE-is-the-new-trend
18 years ago
Theres no simple and quick way. Heartbreak takes time. For me, I usually hang out with guyfriends. Because then your not as lonely as when you hang with just girls. But hang with your girls too. they help a lot too. Also watch extremely funny TV shows. & go out and do really random fun stuff. Like go to Wal-Mart and have a pillow fight with your friends. Its fun. I've tried it. lol. Just go out & have fun! |
what happened to friendships
17 years ago
there really isn't anyway to get over a broke heart. My best friend still has a broken heart even though the guy is friends with her he still broke her heart. To be very honest i think there really is no way to get over it even if you find a new b/f or g/f you will always have feeling for that person and still have a broken heart from him or her. is you need to be happy just ask me for i have helped alot of people out with this problem. I know what to say just ask. |
Tony E
17 years ago
You can't not think of someone you still love, and probably can't force yourself not to talk to them or be around them. Basically you just have to fight through the tears and know that it's better to be around them as a friend then it is to be without them (unless you don't still love in them, but if that was the case why would you be asking how to get over them?). If it was a really messy breakup and you don't see them or talk to them anymore I think that would be even harder and wouldn't know what to do. Being with someone you love when they no longer love you is hard, but at least you're still with them. |
Silent Screams
17 years ago
there is no easy way(in my mind) |
Heidi Harover
17 years ago
It usually takes time, but what seems to help is telling yourself that your over them. If you just forget about worrrying to get over that person, it will go by quicker. |
LuvLyLynn
17 years ago
Well getting over a heartbreak could be hard or easy... But first things first just don't think about it... But if you really care about that person so much its really gonna hurt, but eventually time moves on and the hurt will go away day by day if you let it out and let someone else come in... We've all gone through it and we've all knew how it felt... Sometimes its hard to bare it but eventually you'll realise and wonder (WOW! why did i ever fall for that person) and eventually someone else better comes along, you just have to realise that there are other fishes in the sea... Well hope this helps... :) |
Laybelled with a name
17 years ago
it takes time, you need to cry and let it all out. youll be better when your ready to. |
NonsensicallyNeurotic
17 years ago
Are you serious? Dead soul whatever person, this really makes me mad. |
Megann Lee
17 years ago
Ehm. Get over them? Lol. I don't know. Depends on how much you loved/cared for this person. I'd just no t have any reminds of the person and stuff. Easy as 1, 2, 3. ;] |