WHAT THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER A HEART BREAK???

  • nikki
    18 years ago

    there is no easy way.. and pain doesnt ever fully go away.. BUT... tips are.. keep busy... get out there.. a wise women once told me.. every fling doesnt have to be the one.. youve got to stay strong and keep going... just think of what youve been missing!!! good luck! and try to avoid nights in alone... there suicidal! trust me!

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    You must kiss alot of toads before finding your prince :o)

    Just be active and social I guess, get out and about with your girlfriends do the things you love to do and just have fun enjoyin single life again.

  • NoPatience
    18 years ago

    Alright, My FAV. Method-

    Ice cream, Your BEST -girl- friend, And A Lifetime Movie

    Doesnt Always Kill The Heartache,

    But...

    It Does Makes You Feel A Bit Better

    Hope I've Helped

  • Just Sierra
    18 years ago

    Time.

    Because love is just like being drunk. People say there are all sorts of cures for the hangover but there's really not. Little things and remedies may HELP or take your mind away for a while but when it comes down to it, you're still hurting.

    And although it'll hurt a hell of a lot for quite awhile, given some time, you'll be numb to it and you won't feel it anymore.

    Take it from me. I spent an entire year being miserable and heartbroken over this guy I loved with everything I've got. And when I say everything, I mean everything. I gave up all my friends, lost members of my family, almost committed suicide, almost ran away, did everything I could think of to be with him but it just didn't work.

    So give it time and soon it'll subside. I promise!

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    I agree with the post above mine. Time is the best way to get over a heart break, let alone anything actually. I honestly believe that you can get over anything with time. I mean, yeah, you'll still think about him once in a while, but you won't feel the pain in your heart when you do... eventually. Just try to pass the time by staying busy as someone else had posted above. It took me 8 months to get over my last ex. Don't expect an overnight cure, because there isn't one.

    ~BJ~

  • The Angel of Secrets
    18 years ago

    "Time will heal a broken heart, as it is then ready to love again"

  • krysten
    18 years ago

    Don't call them or think about them or see them for a little while its that simple

  • MischieviousMya
    18 years ago

    some may say its simple because they feel that way. i, however dont. it definetly takes time. get yourself involved in a activity or do something to occupy your time. i mean honestly who ever said break-ups are easy??? =]]

  • cissy
    18 years ago

    it lakes time to get over someone you love so dearly.Do things to ditract your mind off them.And if you start cring just let it out.The more you let it out the quickier you can get over them.It helps I've been there.

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    for me its not easy but you got to think life without him b/c if your think life with him that hurts!!! life gos on

  • FAKE-is-the-new-trend
    18 years ago

    Theres no simple and quick way. Heartbreak takes time. For me, I usually hang out with guyfriends. Because then your not as lonely as when you hang with just girls. But hang with your girls too. they help a lot too. Also watch extremely funny TV shows. & go out and do really random fun stuff. Like go to Wal-Mart and have a pillow fight with your friends. Its fun. I've tried it. lol. Just go out & have fun!

  • mel
    17 years ago

    there is no way, you can do it if you think about doing it (i mean getting over them)!!! so you could hang with your mates more, shop till you drop change your way of thinking, erm tink...tink...tink just enjoy life and you'l move on takecare melxxx ps be happy smile :o)

  • what happened to friendships
    17 years ago

    there really isn't anyway to get over a broke heart. My best friend still has a broken heart even though the guy is friends with her he still broke her heart. To be very honest i think there really is no way to get over it even if you find a new b/f or g/f you will always have feeling for that person and still have a broken heart from him or her. is you need to be happy just ask me for i have helped alot of people out with this problem. I know what to say just ask.

  • Tony E
    17 years ago

    You can't not think of someone you still love, and probably can't force yourself not to talk to them or be around them. Basically you just have to fight through the tears and know that it's better to be around them as a friend then it is to be without them (unless you don't still love in them, but if that was the case why would you be asking how to get over them?). If it was a really messy breakup and you don't see them or talk to them anymore I think that would be even harder and wouldn't know what to do. Being with someone you love when they no longer love you is hard, but at least you're still with them.

  • Silent Screams
    17 years ago

    there is no easy way(in my mind)

  • Pianist
    17 years ago

    A huge box of porno, a bottle of lube, and a whole lot of free time.

  • Heidi Harover
    17 years ago

    It usually takes time, but what seems to help is telling yourself that your over them. If you just forget about worrrying to get over that person, it will go by quicker.

  • LuvLyLynn
    17 years ago

    Well getting over a heartbreak could be hard or easy... But first things first just don't think about it... But if you really care about that person so much its really gonna hurt, but eventually time moves on and the hurt will go away day by day if you let it out and let someone else come in... We've all gone through it and we've all knew how it felt... Sometimes its hard to bare it but eventually you'll realise and wonder (WOW! why did i ever fall for that person) and eventually someone else better comes along, you just have to realise that there are other fishes in the sea... Well hope this helps... :)

  • Laybelled with a name
    17 years ago

    it takes time, you need to cry and let it all out. youll be better when your ready to.

  • melly
    17 years ago

    chocolate and a good night in with friends and maybe more chocolat

  • Priscilla
    17 years ago

    BABE, Think of all the worst things that they done to u and why u thought they were not for you anyway, remember the bad stuff everyday, and when u start to think of the good, go back to the shit!

  • melly
    17 years ago

    chocolate and a good night night in with your frinds (girls only)and maybe some more chocolate
    ice-cream is good too

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Millsy has the right idea. :P

    Ice cream, girlfriends, and time. It's a simple recipe, you'll be happier before you know it.

  • NonsensicallyNeurotic
    17 years ago

    Are you serious? Dead soul whatever person, this really makes me mad.

    Don't think of them?

    If you do that, everything will rush back at you in an instant when someone brings your ex-love up. You'll be crushed all over again.

    Time. You just have to wait it out. I've had my share of heartbreak, and blocking them out is not a good idea.

    I say, wallow for awhile, then keep your chin up. I know it hurts, but like I said, time and patience.

  • Megann Lee
    17 years ago

    Ehm. Get over them? Lol. I don't know. Depends on how much you loved/cared for this person. I'd just no t have any reminds of the person and stuff. Easy as 1, 2, 3. ;]

  • Catty
    17 years ago

    Focus on the positive things about being single and remind yourself of the qualities he had that you didn't like. Make a list of what you want in a guy and read it whenever you get upset. Tell yourself you deserve better.

  • HansRik
    17 years ago

    Oblivion...