ADVICE NEEDED

i cheated on my boyfriend with my best friend JW. and on top of that JW has a girlfriend. we both feel guilty but we are still so atracted to each other. i dont know what to do, ive never felt this way about some one. please help.

talk to your bestfriend say you'll break up with your boyfriend and let him know if he does you'll be there for him... duh

cheaters.............................idk wat to write. O.o

xxleisaxx

If you guys want to be together, then he should break up with his girlfriend and you with your boyfriend. Simple?

Are you the same one who posted this before? I forget.

Anyways what I think is that you don't deserve your boyfriend, and you if you date your best friend there are definitely going to be trust issues since apparently you both are capable of cheating.

"there are definitely going to be trust issues since apparently you both are capable of cheating."

lol :x made me laugh.sorry.

sometimes things just happen. no matter if we want them to or not. breaking up with our "partners" isnt going to solve much. it will just hurt them. and i wish it was as simple as me and JW could just go out but the ties are complicated. its hard to understand but thanks for all your advice

Uh duh.

Tell your boyfriend and break up with him. And make your 'friend' do the same. Then date your friend.

It's not rock science.

Geesh, what is the world coming to? D-mn w\h\o\r\e\s.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

"sometimes things just happen. no matter if we want them to or not. breaking up with our "partners" isnt going to solve much. it will just hurt them."

It will just hurt them? Obviously you have already hurt them, and they deserve better, so do them a favour and end both relationships.

And if you date your best friend, I guarantee you will end up crying. I suppose you're asking for it though.

i think that if u cant be faithful to ur current bf u should atleast have enough decency to break up with him before u cause him anymore pain and i also feel that your bestfriend should break up with his gf... then u can tlk about either giving it a break or going out or just being friends with "benifits" your choice really

One last comment... once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater

who do you feel fellings for?It may sound corny but be honest with your man.

I'm in pretty much the same position. Yours a little dif. tho. If I was you I would think about who you care about more JW or your boyfriend & if its JW then I would find out how much he cares about you. Then if he really cares about you, I would go out with him.

Follow your heart. Your head is probably way messed up right now so do what feels right.

Ouch.. that's harsh.. cheating.. never really win with that huh?..

anyways..

your best bet is being completely honest with your boyfriend and telling him you cheated on him, and you tell him who too. He's going to be super jealous and super pissed, and probably end the relationship. If he doesn't.. weird guy. Then you would need your best friend to tell his girlfriend what happen.

Which will result in her coming on this site and asking for advice. Umm, next you sort of go back to your best friend.

Be honest. Best advice I can give..

Well i think you should talk to JW and see if ya'll want to start goin out, then if ya'll both agree on it. Then tell ur boyfriend that its over and be honest with him. and have JW to do the same with his girlfriend. Well just be with the person who makes you truley happy!

You should both talk to everyone involved before you decide on doing anything.
They have a right to know what has happened.
Cheating is one of the most despciable things a person can do, and whatever you do, there are going to be a lot of people hurt.
Save yourself the worry and get it over with now.

megan, i'm not going to have ago at you or give you a hard time!!! however i think you should sit down with your boyfriend and tell him the truth about what happened with you and your bestfriend. yeah he will be hurt but he desearves to know the longer you leave it the more difficult it will be. does JW feel the same way about you or is he happy with his partner?? i think he should also come clean and tell his gf whats happened between you to. then you and JWtalk about what you both want you never know you might be together and be happy. but what ever happen you BOTH need to come clean takecare mel xxx

If JW was your friend you wouldn't haven't cheated with her boyfriend. That makes you a losey friend! You need to leave your boyfriend...the poor boy has no idea what he's dealing with. You should be ashamed! Man up to your mistakes...your friend and boyfriend deserve that much, at least!