Help me plz?

my new boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a month. at first i really liked him and we spent every possible moment together. lately i see him less and less and it seems like he is just there because we have a physical atrraction. i dunno wut to do. i do feel bad just being with him for this but i also think that this might just be a temporary thing becuz he just started a new job and i've been really busy looking into colleges and finishing up my senior year. can ya'll plz help me?

If you're unsure, wait for a week or two and see how you feel then. If you still think that there is nothing more than physical attraction, then perhaps it is best to end the relationship.

I think that happens sometimes, people get caught up with the rush they get from hooking up, but then the relationship gets old pretty fast. Good luck to you on this one.

I spent a week without talking to him. No phone calls no nothing. Then today his cousin sent me a text saying that i should watch out for myself because he's been getting too friendly with other girls and that he was at some girls house. So i called him and he flipped out saying it's all my fault because he feels that i dont want to hang out with him and that he tries making me happy but he never knows where he stands with me.

What the hell?
I serisouly need help now..

OKOKOK
first of all...you will learn in relationships that you can NEVER keep anything from you boyfriend...NEVER. So the first thing you do is talk to him about it. Dont hold anything back...in fear of whatever, jsut say it all. If you really like him just tell him that. If he really likes you back, he will start changing it up...if he doesnt...then i know you prbably dont want to hear this but...hes not worth it...a guy that just wants to get in your pants is always a dick....

To the person above me...
You can keep things from your boyfriend if you choose too...sheesh, no one is EVER COMPLETELY 100% honest about themselves, and you can darn well gurantee your boyfriend isnt either...
When it is a problem like mentioned though I do advise that you be open to your boyfriend about the way your feeling as it does concern him and the status of your relationship. Your both probably a bit preoccupied with your own lives as you mentioned at the moment and have forgotten about each others wants and needs in the midst of your busy schedules. Once you both settle a bit Im sure your relationship will be able to get back on track with a lil hard work and dedication ...goodluck

Like jamie said...give it a week.If there is nothing there between you two then there is no since in staying in the relationship.Right now is the hardest time for the both of you.You about to graduate and every thing.Maybe ya'll need a break from eachother and focus on school then see what happens and where ya'll wanna take it from there.I'm sure he loves you.