I talked to a BOY today!!

Yes, well, I guess it's not interesting to the rest of the world, which have had boyfriends and boy-related experiences. But I met a boy just today and we got along. We talked a lot... oh, okay, well, guess I needed to vent because this is the type of thing that I'd usually tell my sister but she's not here now.
He actually asked for my e-mail address, and asked if I dated... a very casual question, but for me it was a shock. A very good one too :-D

//T.L.//

AWWWWW! lol that's so cute! And so exciting. New boys are ALWAYS exciting.
And Au Contraire. It is VERY interesting to me! Haha I was that excited before my boyfriend and I started dating. And although I couldn't be happier, I have to admit that i'm starting to get bored of him! LOL!!

Aw hehe I love you TL. sorry I missed your message today. by the time I got it you were offline. But I definately know what you mean. Its a great feeling!
Talk later.
SJ

awwww thats so cute! i feel the same way when i meet someone knew!

That's awesome, good luck with that. :P

Things like that can be such a rush, I definitely can relate to that feeling.

Oh, gee... I may have taken it too much to heart. I dreamt about him all night... hahahah, that he was engaged to be married, and me and my sister were wandering around his neighborhood just trying to "bump into him" and then I glimpsed him and ran... but it ended up that he wasn't engaged. I mean geez, he must be 14, 16 MAX.. I didn't ask him his age, even though he asked me :-P
It's weird because me and my mum were setting up a stand and he was kind of like the general helper, so he was taping up posters for us and stuff... I noticed that there was a bit of eye-contact, but then again I do that with every person of the opposite sex, because I'm in my boy-crazy period.
Later on I was just standing there watching the show, and we began to talk. He also said it would be great if I could see him next year because he's going to be competing (in bodybuilding) so I was flattered that someone talked to me, and actually wanted to know about me, like seemed genuinely curious.
Oh, and I got to kiss him on the cheek twice because that's what Chileans do when they greet or say goodbye to each other :-P

I may not see him again, but it was a day I will remember forever :)

//T.L.//

Aww..that's really sweet :). It's great that you found someone you have a connection with. I hope things work out for you.

Talking to guys aint no big thingy, cuz they end up hurting u anyways.... I think u shouldn't get all ur hopes up, better safe than sorry... So yea I would say ur quite young and shouldn't care too much about these boyz they're a waste of time in the end. I guess it's cool to get open around boyz and what not but dont expect too much. Trust me. And don't try tooo hard to get with him, take it easy. Try out friends first, if anything.

:-) That's a sweet story.

You're so cute :o)

Yes, and know I find out that he has a crush on me and wants to go out with me!!! He's fifteen, and he's had two other girlfriends... and I've had none... so I'm confused and disorientated. Sure, we got along, but now this... it's too soon...!

//T.L.//

Tell him you need time, and you want things to move slow. If he's worth your time, he'll understand.

Yesssssss

= l

Did you give him the email?

yes, we talked over msn, that's how he told me all these things... and I saved the conversation and read it a few times, and... well, it's out of the blue...

:'( and now I feel sad.

//T.L.//

TL.. that's cute

awkward.. I'm a guy and I think that's cute..

ew

lmao...now thas cute...^ thinkin it's cute...

I have to see him again in the afternoon. I'm forced to go with my parents to a bodybuilding competition and he'll be there... and I really wish that I didn't have to go and face him.

I've had crushes on other people, and it hurts soo much when they don't feel anything back, and to think that without wanting to I'm doing the same to someone else, is horrible. :-(

//T.L.//

how sweet:)

i think this is sweet (like everyone else has said lol). dont worry...if its meant to be itll happen... and thats great that youve got someone interested in you! if you feel its moving too ffast, just be honest and tell him that you need to slow it down a bit. he'll appreciate your honesty
:) :) im rootin for ya! haha

xoxo Emily

Oohh, sweet? *gasps* I'm in frantic panic state and everyone thinks it's sweet?? Humph.

Anyway, he didn't come to the show... I think that before he was just going to go to see me again. Now that's sweet ;-)

It seems that the moral of my story is "be VERY careful what you wish for." I have wanted a boyfriend forever, now it appears to be happening, and I want it to stop...
My sister wanted to see what he looked like. She'll be disappointed when she does. He's pretty average looking, with dark skin, and hair and eyes, but a pretty nice character. Quite thin. Nobody would believe that he weighs over 70 kilos. It's all muscle, as he is in training to become a bodybuilder.
Well, I guess maybe one day he'll invite me out for the afternoon and my sis can meet him then.
Perhaps he got the message, though, that I was frightened and put-off by his abrupt declaration..

//T.L.//

I thought that was an obvious moral..

But i guess you sort of need to experience it before you can beileve it..

But then.. there are somethings you should believe, before you experience it, to be safe...