Why?

Why are there so many w|h|o|r|e|s in the world today?

Why is everyone cheating on everyone else?

Why is there even dating if people are going to cheat on each other?

Why does EVERYONE think they are in love, when they can tell you what love is? (Yes, I know I said 'can'. If you love, you -can't- tell you what love is...it is unexplainable.)

Why does everyone feel the need to have SOMEONE? JUST WAIT. True love comes to those who wait.

I cannot -stand- society today. Everyone is so fake and no one tries for the important things anymore. Everyone is so consumed in what other think of them, it is sicken.
A word of advice: Love is love. When it comes to you, embrace it and never let go. But fear love, for it is a powerful subject.

(I know I'm going to get a look of ridcules about this, but I felt it was time to post this. It ended up here, because I felt it would be most worthy here. Enjoy.)

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

I seriously agree with you......one thing i hate so much about love is when someones says they love you and they dont mean it........I mean why say empty words??

i agree with you on all of this.... i know someone who is always saying 'oh, i love him more than ive ever loved someone'...and when they break up a month laater, she goes on to another guy and says the same thing! and she's 14!!! even though actions speak louder than words, words still count. though i am 14 as well, i know that this thing called 'love' will happen eventually, and though there are times when i just want to experience it for myself, i know that ive got PLENTY of time and to just stay content with what i have for now.

here's one thing i dont get... people say that their friends will always come before guys , but as soon as a guy ateps into the picture, they go off with him and leave their friends behind... then when the guy ditches THEM they expect sympathy from their friends....wHY??

Well.....I'm still searching for an answer on that because i have a close friend that does that........and it really gets to me.........sometimes people dont realize what they are doing.....

How about a friend that always has to be involved wiht you and the guys you date???Like she always has to have their number.....I hate that so much.......I dont really think LOVE is ment fot teens

You keep saying 'everyone'. I think that although there may be examples of the points you brought up, it's unfair to say that everybody is the same.

Were you including yourself in these observations?

^^^^ agree

yes a lot of young people do say their in love and yes some dont know what it means. but thats ok. let them learn and grow from it. besides...eventually they WILL find true love. days, months, even years......doesnt matter they'll find it and know.

I see what you're saying, but you must also take into consideration the amount of people that are in relationships that don't cheat.

And I definitely see your point about love. There are a lot of people who "fall in love" so quickly so many times. I mainly think that it's because they have a void that needs to be filled and "love" fills it for them, so they search for it, forcing it.. I think most people are in love with the idea of being in love, instead of actually being in love.

I'm glad I don't have any of my diaries from when I was younger... I know they would all say "I love so and so" and then the next page would say a different name. I was definitely in love with being in love... but it's a step to learning how to love properly and learn what love is all about.

Now, I am 20 and have much more insight on love and I can't believe how much my point of view on love has changed. I'm one of the luckier people who didn't do stupid things with the "in love with love phase".. I played it safe and am glad I did.

~BJ~

To a few -
When I state 'everyone' it is only blind that I did not really mean everyone on the earth. It is just an expression. Should I change it to 'some' to whoo your whim?

To ShhhItsASecret-
Thank you for kindly stating your thoughts. I know that a lot do not cheat, but it seems that's all it is anymore: cheating.

Many, espically girls you have to agree, are in love with the idea of being in love. And that is fine.. It is the offense part when they go and well... yeah somebody at 13. It is disgusting and disgrading. What is the world coming to today?

Now, I am 16 and have much to learn, I realize, but I do believe my insight on love is correct. Call me wrong, call me stupid, but true love is true love and should (and can) only be shared with one person. There is only one person you truly love . . . whether you ever find that someone or not.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

"You will only get the right answer from someone who has actually fallen in love.

I am in love, thus, I feel obligated to share the answer to your question "Explain Love"."

^This was your response in a different post.

"Why does EVERYONE think they are in love, when they can tell you what love is? (Yes, I know I said 'can'. If you love, you -can't- tell you what love is...it is unexplainable.)"

I guess that's where I was going with this, is that you claim to be in love, and then are upset that "everybody thinks they are in love". Although I can see some of your points in the first post, who's to say what love really is, and that you know better than anyone else?

And the worst thing is, some of these wh0*es are the people who you thought were your friends =/

It's about time someone posted this topic. I completely agree with everything you said. What's wrong with people now adays? Nobody should ever try to be something they're not just to fit in. Nobody should dwell on finding love, it happens when it happens. Just because you want love, doesn't mean the guy/girl your with is the person you're going to be "in love" with. So many people who claim to be "in love", don't even know what it is. Teenagers shouldn't even be thinking about finding love. You're only a teenager once. It should be a time to have fun with friends, and focus on school.

why??? because this world is just gay!!!! everybody do dumb things!!!!

Jamie --
Your post makes no sense. But, I will try to make sense of it.

First off, 'You claim to be in love', I do not claim it, I feel it. Understand? I am engaged. I know, I love. Thank you for your opinion.

Second off, Love knows better and has more common sense than anything. If you see the logic in my post, why did you post negatively? You only wanted to disagree because everyone else was agreeing. It is a simple thought. Leave randomness out of this.
Thank you for your time.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

I agree with you Darling. Society bothers me beyond belief as well.

-Jenna.

I just found it hypocritical for you to say you are in love, and then to say that other people don't know what love is. I don't get what makes you think your version of love is the right one.

I said that I can see -some- of the points in your post. And to tell me that I'm only disagreeing because everyone else is agreeing is very naive. It's a discussion forum, my opinion doesn't have to be the same as yours and everyone elses.

~Edit: I believe I'm coming across harsher than I meant to, and I apologize for that, no hard feelings okay? It's all a matter of opinion.

That's just it, Jamie, I know what love is, and it disgusts me that people -think- they know love. Love is a grand thing and people shouldn't abuse the words 'I love you' as a game. Understand better?

And I didn't ask whether your opinion differed from mine, I know I would get people who disagreed. It was how you came off on it, snotty and know-it-all. Not a good thing for me.

No hard feelings... Just becareful with how you word things. I have my opinions and you have yours.

Good Day.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

Due to Bob's complaint, I had to edit this. But I had much more to say.
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Oh. My. God.

'but most of them are just girls who know what they want.'
^^^^
Don't EVEN get me started on that comment.

The rest of your post barely made sense, for you do not know what proper punctuation is.

Good day.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

I am sorry, Bob, but it was reply to his post and felt it most needed to be said. But, due to my respect for you, I will delete it.
BUT. Keep in mind this is a discussion form and I should be able to have my own opinion said.
Anyways.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

I don't think I was able to get my thoughts across clearly, so I apologize. I don't know any better ways to say it though, so I'm just going to drop it.

However, I can agree with you that "I love you" is thrown around way too easily these days.

u r so right i understand ths its just people get rapped u in our society and it suks i was one of them

Love is different at all ages of life...in my opinion of course. You can't discourage what one may BELIEVE to be love as everyone needs to experience these things to learn what love really is...not that I actually think any of us will ever really know what love is...lol

I think that the only love in this world that could be explainable and/or understood is that of blood and Jesus.

Good post though...nice to know that not EVERY teenager has hormones flaring that blind them from reality.

i think people are scared of never finding love, nobody wants to not be loved its like nobody would like to die a virgin lol but anyway serious face back on.... i think personally that their is someone for eveyone out there, and people panick if they never find the one. love is hard to talk about you cannot really say what love is its a strong magical connection, feeling between two people. maybe when you fall in love with someone and they give you the love back you'll realise we need love in the world, everyone needs love and maybe just maybe you may not be able to explain how love is for you takecare mel xxx

Bob--
You are most welcome. You are probably the only person I would 'obey' on this site. To me, you are the father of the site and I respect your opinion greatly.
But, what did you mean by 'there's always email..'? Oh well.

Everyone--
Thank you for all your opinions.

Mel --
Of course people are scared of not falling in love. It is the greatest feeling all could obtain...would you be frightened to never obtain it?
The rest of your post was so well thought out and I really enjoyed reading it and feel no need to comment further. Thank you for posting. =]

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

I agree with you totally!