have you ever?

have you ever thought you were pregnate and didn't kno what to do? My best friend is in that situation shae ask me for help but i have never been in that situtaion. kno one knos but me and her and that bad part is her boyfriend died... she is 3 months late andi a month a go he got killed... i need advise for her....help

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i felt mean cos no1 else posted back, but i cant say thats happened to me before, but i do know people who have had trouble with things such as this and basically she needs to decide what the best thing to do would be either tell her parents and they could help her.
i doubt abortion would be an option cos its the only thing she has got left that will remind her properly of him.
so i think she should tell her parent and get them to help her, but then agen how old is she?

she is 16... but her dad would kill her and she is scared to tell her mom... her mom would be cool with it but she begged me not to tell but sooner or later she will began to show so she needs to tell them plus the baby needs vitamens, or something

She needs to go to the Drs and find out for sure if she is pregnant if she only thinks she is.. If she has lost her bf and is upset and stressed [which she obviously would be] that can cause her periods to be late.. As for telling her parents, they need to know.. what if something goes wrong and the pregnancy puts her and the baby in danger?.. I was 16 when I fell pregnant with my first child and dreaded telling my parents, but after a couple of days they got used to the idea and were more supportive than I thought they would be.
Hope everything goes well xx

It happened to me before, but I wasn't 3 months late, it was just 2 weeks and my flows are always way off track and everything. But, she needs to go to a hospital and figure it out for sure and then go from there. It will be hard, but just let her know that you will always be there for her. I hope it goes okay.

-Jenna.

Oh yeah, and she has to tell her parents no matter how scared she is to. I watched this thing on Oprah the other day and a girl hid it and when she was going to the bathroom, the baby fell into the toilet and then she felt it was a stillborn some hours later and that she had to take it out of it's misery so she stabbed it and put it in a duffel bag and hid it in her closet. Her boyfriend then put rocks in it and sunk it into the quarry in town...

She is now in prison for six years. She NEEDS to tell someone, don't let that happen. My boyfriend also told me about a girl in Madison that had hers in the bath tub. Help her tell someone, and if she can't then you need to. She may be mad at you at first, but she'll forgive you when she comes around about it.

-Jenna.

she needs to take a pregnancy test to find out for sure then if she is she needs to start planning out the whole having-a-baby-situation.

My friend thought she was pregnant last year, turned out she was, but she was too young, so she had an abortion .
Yur friend needs to get a pregnancy test, and if she is pregnant, she needs to decide whether she is ready to take on the challenge . If she is, yu need to support her . She can`t go through it alone, and she trusts yu enough to go to you .
Best wishes to her .
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nope i never thought about it cuz first i ain't pregnant and NEVER will be in the age of 18 - 24. and i'm barely 12....lol

1st get married before pregnant....u guys get too excited u do it when u think ur ready but ur not

xxleisaxx

she did yesturday and it was a posative... her aunt brought her she is 3 1\2 months the doctors think... she has an apt. next week to make sure the due date and to see how far she is for real.... Her b\f died last month and she slept with him only once... they were planning to get married when he died...

but i don't wanto lose my friend... i kno i need to but would any one tell if i was in that situation?