I'm so lost in this girl

  • ForeverGoneInYourEyes
    18 years ago

    I so am in love with this girl who makes me so happy i spent this whole summer woth her and ive known her for like 3 years and only in this last past 8 months have we been insepreateable until i went to college she says she love me and she is so fun and kind but she has a boyfriend now who basically put bad thoughts in her head and everytime me and her hang out something happens and especiialy this weekend what should i do im totaaly lost

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    Have you told her how you feel?
    I mean, what kind of bad thoughts. Thoughts that involve you?
    She might not be happy which is why she's thinking however she is.
    I don't know the whole story so i don't really know how to try help, but i think your best bet is talking to her.
    If she means so much to you, don't just sit by and forever wonder, "what if...?"
    It's not worth it.
    Just go for it.
    *Gem*

  • mel
    18 years ago

    wow your madly in love bless you. well i think she feels the same way about you, obviously shes told you this but have you considered telling her your true feelings? if you havnt i would advise you to it cannot destroy anything as she made the first move by telling you she loved you. As for her boyfriend he cannot have the best for her within his heart if he's putting horrible thoughts in her head. i think you should make your move and tell her how things are great between you both, how you really feel about her and what you would like to happen you dont know what your missing out on if you dont!!! takecare good luck mel xxx

  • ashley
    18 years ago

    amazing! why cant all guys be that sweet? i think its love in both directions

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    aww thats so sad!!! i dont know what i cant help!!! sorrie

  • emmerz
    18 years ago

    good for you!! well, since im not sure what the whole story is, i cant help that much, but i think you should just tell her how you feel. does she know that her boyfriend is saying these things on purpose? th only reason he would do this is because he is JEALOUS of your relationship with her. and if you guys are really as close as you make it out to be, just open up to her! she'll really appreciate your honesty and hopefully be as honest with you as you are with her.
    you never know how high you can jump if you dont lift your feet off the ground, so go for it! i really do hope it all works out for you!