NEED HELP ON LOVE.....

  • mel
    18 years ago

    hi people please help me i really like my bestfriend his name is kye and he is such a nice fella. we've been friends for five years and i think its more then luv i feel for him but is it? i do not know please help me post your comments!!! i'm afraid to tell him how i feel dont want to lose him as a friend what should i do:s mel xxx
    ps also i'm scared of love is that normal???

  • cissy
    18 years ago

    It's perfectly normal.So ya'll have been friends for 5 years now.How long have you had these fellings for him. If I were you I would tell in a private place where he can really show how he feels about what you told him.He can't hide his feelings if you two are by yourselfs together.What I 'm saying is Just tell him how you feel.

  • mel
    18 years ago

    thank you belinda for helping me takecare mel xxx

  • Deana
    18 years ago

    If you have known him for five years I think it would show if he is interested in you romantically,are there signs? little things? be careful in telling him,it can cause a comfortable friendship to become strained.

  • mel
    18 years ago

    thank you all for your comments takecare mel xxx

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    hey i been there!!! i dont know for me my best friend only wanted to be friend but am happy i told him just to get it off my mind...just tell him how you feel!

  • ForeverGoneInYourEyes
    18 years ago

    lol im going through this shit rite now i told my best friend i love her and yes she says it bak but omg sometimes your just like omfg just do something but i will always at least have her as a friend

  • Jasmine
    18 years ago

    Hey Mel, I was in this situation about a year ago from now. But the thing is..we were only best~friends for five months. The outcome was wonderful becasue he like me too. Have your frined ever shwed you justa little extra attention than a normal friend would show you. have he ever hugged you justa a little too long. Because you might come put and tell him too fast, and scrae him off...that cn ruin the friendship, and I know you don't want that to happen. Take him somewhere quiet, just you two, and tell him slowly (piece by peice) how you feel. If you guys have been frineds for 5 years, you must have madd love for each other. He'll understand, and it migh make him secong think about making you two a couple. You would love that...right. Follow your first intincts! Good Luck.

  • ***searching for the one
    18 years ago

    ive known people who wer best friends and became boyfriend/girlfriend. after they broke up, their friendship was fine. tell him that you have feelings for him but dont want to ruin the friendship you share no matter what happens.

  • mel
    18 years ago

    Thank you so much you guys have helped me think twice.... well heres the results i told him and he said he felt the same but he cant see there being a serious relationship betweeen us. it really hurt me but i kinda expected it but hey at least i have him still as a bestfriend but things between us know are kinda awkward because we ended up kissing and the next day i regretted it( i know weird after my feelings for him!) we havnt been the same since the passionate kiss:o( but hey any comments from you guys about this would be great!!! i would like to be in a relationship i get so lonley being single:( anyway takecare mel xxx