Would it be wrong ...

If I`m falling for my best friend, but I go out with this other guy to give him a chance ? Some of my friends say it`d be mean if I went out with the guy, while falling for my best friend . But my best friend has a girlfriend of five months, going on six months, and he loves her so it`s obvious to everyone I won`t have a chance . Is it wrong to date a guy that yu don`t like, but yur giving him a chance, while falling for yur best friend ?
Gah`d I feel like an idiot): It feels wrong to me, yet it doesn`t . So, would it be mean if I did so ?

&I know I`m still young and shouldn`t have to think about dating/boyfriends and stuf like that -- I`ve been told all that before; but I`m not into the whole 'Wait til yur older, THEN get serious think about those kind of things.' So please don`t tell me i`m too young to be thinking about these kind of things .
..ღ__MiNDYY

It wouldn't be fair to the other guy if you went out with him while liking anohter guy, and it would hurt you worse because you are giving a part of yourself to someone who you have no feelings for. Be careful who you get mixed up with, and I'm not just talking about boyfriend/girlfriend kind of relationships. It will save you a whole lot of heartache all together now and later on.

Take Care :)

In all honesty it's wrong to lead this other guy on. You don't have feelings for him, but someone else. That is a sign to end it. You might be better off as just friends. As for your best friend. Well, you need to stay out of that. You don't want to mess anything up that he has with his g/f. Good luck.

I disagree.
Your friend has a girlfriend, so stop thinking about him. I say give this new guy a chance, you never know what'll happen. You might fall hard for him and be with him for a long time.

Just stay friends with the guy you're falling for. He has a girlfriend, so drop it. They've been together for a while, give the other guy a chance and see where it takes you.

just try to be careful though because if your best friend split with his girlfriend you would go running to him and this could hurt ur bf's feelings!
plus if you dont feel anything for the guy then why bother? *is only saying that because thats the impression she got from ur message*

~*~Jen~*~

I`m not leading the guy on, he KNOWS that I don`t like him, btu he wants me to give him a chance . And I`ve been in a situation similiar -- I`m not dumb enough to go chasing after my best friend if he breaks up with his girl while with a boyfriend . I know better .
And cuhs` everyone thinks I should give the guy a chance and see how it rolls . THAT`s why I bother .
..ღ__MiNDYY

ima give the boys names...
best friend- jesse
other guy- devon

it wouldnt be fair to devon if you did so... some girls force themselves to get feelings for guys, because they dont wanna get hurt by others... but ya.. it wouldnt be fair to devon.

I have this friend.. she and her boyfriend had been dating for 1 year and some months. and then suddenly out of no where he broke up with her...
well i guess what im saying is dont think that you and jesse never have a chance... because you never no what is going to happen. things could seem perfect.. and them BAMB its all apart...

you should tell jesse how you feel.. but then it could ruin what jesse has know... things like this are confusing. just.. follow your heart and dont listen to your mind.

Give the guy i chance. you never know he could turn out to be something better than whats taken. =]. I know your falling for you best friend, but like you said hes taken and in love. so simply move on, in hopes of finding love for yourself.

hope my lame advice helps xD

whoops i meant *Your*

tee hee

hey
it wouldnt be fair on this other lad!! you cant date him if your constanly thinking of your best mate...
you cant do anything bout your best mate! he is happy with his gf and the thing is if you care bout him like u say u do then you gotta leave him be! and pick up the pieces once it goes wrong!!

i know its hard becasue i have best mate who is a lad and when i date blokes he gets jealous and i hurt him that way! and i know seeing him with her hurts you too.... so YEAH your mates are right to say what they have.... also i know tht pain too wen i see him with his ex gf i hate it too n im little confused atm over him but dont dat this other guy it isnt fair! why ruin a perfectly gd friendship what u can have with this other guy!

you know the best decision bout what to do and its up to you what u do!
take care

Thanks for everyone`s opinion on the situation .
The guy wants to me with me, and he doesn`t care whether I`m falling for my best friend . So I might give the guy a chance .
And yes, I`ve been keeping off the whole best friend/love thing . Cuhs` if they ended, he`d be miserable . I`d rather he be happy with her then be miserable and without her .
Thanks again(:
..ღ__MiNDYY

to what you said in your last post... i think that if the other guy knows that you dont like him and still wants to give you a chance, he is actually hoping you were lying or that you will change your mind. this guy either really likes you or is really desperate if he knows you like your guy friend. whatever:P but i think that youre being smart in staying out of your friends relationship, ANd youve got a good attitude about that. my advice for you about the other guy is to keep him as a FRIEND, and not go out with him... cuz then you will be leading him on more than you have (without realizing it) and he will just end up getting his heart broken even more

so yea, thats my advice:)

Emily