How? (Need Advice From Guys)

"how do you make someone fall in love (or whatever) with you?"

First of all, you cannot make someone fall in love with you. Love is something that comes from deep down in someone's heart, and that is something we cannot have control of.

Second, the best way to get a guy to like you, is by being yourself, if you have to change the way you are to please a guy, then you are being fake. No one wants anyone who is fake. Talk to the guy, get to know him, be his friend.

Third, if you are playing hard to get, a guy will look at that as if you are not interested. Be bold, tell him you like him. Be different than the other girl. A guy will like a girl that knows what she wants, and it can also make his choice easier.

Lastly, if this guy doesn't work out, and he chooses the other girl. Accept it. He will be missing out. Don't dwell on it, move on and find someone else.

Best of luck,
Darien

I have the opposite problem... how do you subtly show someone that you are NOT interested in that way, and though you don't mind being friends and think that he is a nice, interesting person, you will not even be thinking about dating for at least the next two years... and will he please respect that decision..?

Humm, maybe you just tell him.

To the original poster, I'll give you the advice that my father gave me, and that I used without realizing, and that in my case very unfortunately worked...

Take a genuine interest in him. It seems that guys like it when girls ask them lots of questions, about what they like, what music, what sports, their aspirations, motivations... but don't fake it.. to really have someone interested in you seems to do the trick... yeah, well, that.
But make sure that you really know him. Or else you could end up with Mr. Hottest Crush, except in his Lukewarm version. The magic dies, that's what I'm trying to say.
Good luck :)

//T.L.//

I'd have to agree 100% with Darien, there is nothing better than being yourself, and being totally honest with the guy, be bold tell him how you feel, like Darien stated, it will make it easier on the guy's choice. And if he picks the other girl, just move on, he doesn't know what he is missing, don't dwel on it, life moves on, and there are plenty of guys just like him, if not better.

Ciao, Joe

i like the girl when she is honest, act her self, understand my feelings, carful to not hurt my feelings but also say the truth. shy but not too much.but i am sure this not what all guys want.