A friend that I cant help but love

Theres this girl you see. I've known her for four years. we didn't really talk for like 1 of them. I just knew her from school. Shhes been through alot. Then the second year at school we chatted alil. Then finnallly my senior year of high school we talked all the time. That's when it happened I started liking her. Looking forward to the nex time we would see eachother. Thats when all kinds of crazy stuff started happening. I went to prom with her and she was the one who asked me lol Im way to shy. Then through all summer I started to fall for her. Thats when by the end of summer I told her I loved her. You know what happened next. She cried to me because she just got a boyfriend one of my friends. Right behind my back. Not a close friend just someone whios suppose to be cool. But you know what she still loves me whih is pretty cool. She doubts her boyfriend everyday. She still says she loves me. But you know what she tore my heart apart so bad. But i still love her but she can be so evil. But you knw what love is blind i cant help it. What is some advice on anything about this. There is more to this story but ill post more after people write

Well, loves not always kind.

Honestly, I think everyone knows what they should do they just want someone to tell them to do it or not. And that is why people ask for love advice. Yes, we're all torn between options at times, but we know what we really should do.. We just want someone to tell us.

You know what's right. A million people could tell you the same thing, but if that's not what you want... That's not what you'll do. :|

-Teria.

Wow, I agree with Teria. She is completely right. But since I feel like giving advice, I'm going to insert my two cents for the heck of it.

If she really loved you, she'd break up with her boyfriend and be with you, so that just proves that her words are empty.

My friend is having just about this exact problem, it's kinda ironic in a way. but the only difference is that I'm friends with the girl, not the guys, really... See she's been with her bf (who she just broke up with) for over a year and they were even talking about getting married, but she developed a physical attraction to someone else and he kept telling her how he loved her and stuff... Well, she doesn't know what she wants, so she broke up with her boyfriend so she can choose... Basically leading them both on... Honestly, i think she's an idiot, but whatever....

Anyway, just wanted to let you know about my friends situation for a little bit of a relation to your story. But I say, move on.. If she wanted to be with you, she really wouldn't be with her boyfriend.

~BJ~

hey
yeah teria is so correct..
and yeah love is sometime cruel to the heart but the thing is love is so many othr things!

but we always know what we want and want others to say and that famous qoute what many ppl know "we should always listen to our friends no matter what they say good or bad about the one in our life..." and you know what we always ignore what our friends might say tht girl or guy coz we know they are right and you know what u wanna hear and you gotta listen to tht inner voice.... and if she can hurt you now like tht!!!! she will hurt you if u got with her.... thing is she prob does love you but just not in thw same way as you love her and yeah tht totally sucks!!!

but you sohuld let her get on with it even if there is more to it! you will do better and someone will love you in everey way!!!

take care