Should I just move on?

Theres this guy I really like named Greg, I'd do anything for him. He told me he liked me & i told him I really liked him too, But I had a bf. So i broke up with my bf. But then Greg said that he didn't want to hurt me so he didn't know if me and him should go out. & it turned into a huge mess. Then yesterday he said he just wanted to start over, & that nothing else mattered but me and him. But then he went off bowling with a group of friends and ended up going out with this girl named jazmyn. Me and my friends didn't know about this until we walked all the way over to his house to hang out with him. I started running away and bawling my eyes out, It felt like my heart had been ripped out and stomped on. He ran after me and said he was so sorry, he didn't mean for it to happen but it did. & he said that everything happens for a reason & that maybe God is just telling us that we shouldn't be together. But What the hell am I supposed to do? I never did anything wrong, All I ever wanted was to be with him, but he continues to fuck things up. He said he cares about me and really does like me, but you just don't do this to someone you care about. We talked for a long time but I never quit crying. He started to cry but stopped. He kept saying he was sorry, and that all this was happening for a reason. After about 30 min. of talking he had to go inside. When he started to walk away I ran away. My friends were trying to catch up but i just kept running and crying. Finally I just collapsed in the middle of the street crying. my friends held me and tried to get me to stop crying but it didn't work. so we just stayed in the middle of the street for a little while until I got it under control. Then we walked back to my house and went down into my basement were I finished crying. Thats the hardest I have EVER cried. i just don't know what I should do. Wait on him or move on. what do you guys think?

that sound really horrible.....i can just imagine u crying ur heart out.

well, wat i would do is move one. but it REALLY hurts. at least ur moving on and it hurts but going with him and he doesn't sort of want to be with you will hurt more. don't take risk. just be with uself for a month then just try to relax. i took the risk last time and BOOM i was crying.....

take care

xxleisaxx

I'd move on. Wait for that special person who won't rip your heart out like that. Of course there will be pain in love, but it's the pain that's worth it, not pain that makes you weaker. Wait for it, and you'll find the best love out there.

God Bless,
Sarah-Joy

Yes.. perhaps you SHOULD move on. You broke up with one boy, to be with another who doesn't love you anymore. It would probably be advisable to take some down-time from the whole relationship area until you are aware of what you really want.

//T.L.//

i think you should move on, obviously he doesn't appreciate you as much as you appreciate him.
it's about giving and recieving and you only have the first part.
take it slow, hang out more with your friends and focus on other things

sorry to hear and keep your options open

I'm so sorry hun about that! But I'm telling you, no guy is worth all the tears you fall and isn't worth breaking your heart. If he keeps making you cry and breaking your heart then I think you should just move on. You deserve better. One day you're going to be in the arms of your one true love for the rest of your life, and that guy will feel horrible about his mistake. Don't let one guy take you down. There is other guys out there that WILL appreciate you and want you. And hun yes I know it's hard to see bad things happen to good person. I'm sure you're a good person and good things AND bad things happen to good people. It's just how life goes. And just like what he said though that he was right about : Everything DOES happend for a reason, and that reason will ALWAYS be discoverd. He's not worth your tears. You've got to be strong and show him that you're not going to wait for him and if he wants you then well he can but you won't hang on to him because you're better then that hun. DON'T LET HIM BRING YOU DOWN. Keep your head up and I hope everything turns out ok. If you need ANYTHING else, feel free to let me know. God Bless

~*Tay*~