friends with benifits?

i like this guy who lives on the other side of town ad doesnt go to my school. he like me too, but i havent seen him in a year. weve tried to make plans, it just never works because were both always busy and we dont drive yet. even though ive liked him for over 3 years, if he asks me out, i cant say yes because i cant make a commitment with someone that i never see. what are your opinions on friends with benefits?

ok here i go, friends with benefits are ok, i have one. the only problem is dont get attached. they only see you as a friend with certain benefits, nothing more. dont fall for him if thats all he is gonna be. you see, i fell for mine, so it hurts me now when he goes off and screws other girls. but in all reality he isnt really mine. so just be carefull, i really dont want to see you get hurt like i did.

its hard to have a friend with benefits because like said above^^^^ you could very easily attatched which is the downfall. its hard to deal afterwards also. no i've never experienced this before but most my friends have. so my only piece of advice is if you cant be with him then dont be beneficially attatched to him..........wow that doesnt make sense lol.

hope all works well for you =]
_Mya_

I kind of have a friend with benifits.

I've got him wrapped around my little finger... haha it's humerous.

On the subject though. I say no, if you've already got feelings for him, it's not a good idea.

I would say go for it, if it doesn't work, you never see him anyway right? Of course, the other posts are right, but if you can't commit this is the next best thing.