I really need someone to talk too

My mother is in her last stages of breast cancer and I really don't know how much longer she will be around. I am so scared and I feel really bad because there is nothing I can do to help her. I don't want to loose my mom. I don't know how I will go on without her. I keep praying and Praying that it all is just a dream but I keep waking up to the same nightmare.

Letty

Hey Letty, I'm so sorry to hear.

It's such a dreadful thing, especially loving and growing up with that one mother... and then finding out that everything is going to change. You must be strong. You must do everything with her you want, or at least say everything. Leave no regrets, the regrets will haunt you.

Try to reach a spiritual level of belief for the after life... things like this help you deal with the fact that, sure, they're gone now... but not forever.

How can someone live and love
And just disapear?

You need to make yourself some coping habits... make sure your friends are around you when you need it.

It's ok. I know what I'm talking about. A fortnight ago my father died from cancer too, I'm currently undergoing regrets, grieving, however possessing hope.

You must carry on, you must still be happy.

Shadow that was great advice, otherwise I'm lost for words.

Heart goes out to you both

all what i can say is be strong. it's very hard to loose your mother but this is life. no one will love forever so the most important thing is to leave the life with no regret. live this tiny time with your mother and pray for her cause miricals can happen by praying and believing

awwww im so sorry to hear that.
i do know what cancer is like as my auntie recently passed away from cancer in the bones,
which did strike us all pretty hard,
all you can do is make sure you are there for her and tell her everything you need to i.e: you love her etc
and also maybe apologise for anything you have done in the past .
that way there will be no regrets as to what you didnt say to her before it happened
*hugs*
~*~Jen~*~

hey um i need help with my mum
you see she doesn't let wear wa i wanna wear and she dont trust me no more but i don't with her cuz she goes through my stuff.
and i selfharm my hands cuz of my anger.
what shall i say 2 my mum?
and wa can do about my anger?

^^^
What a selfish post. This is not about you. Post your own thread.

Now, ShadowPoet gave the heartfelt advice. All I can say is I wish your mother the best, and you must always remember that she is always with you in your heart. Remember, it's not her fault that this happened...
Good luck. Best of Wishes.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

Hey. I'm so sorry to hear about this. There's not much I can say that hasn't already been said, I mostly just wanted to wish you both strength. I'm sure your mom is just as scared as you are, as she won't be able to watch her daughter grow up the way she probably always thought she would. So for right now, I'd say spend alot of time with her. Let her know you and get to know her. I know this is all probably painful and sometimes too hard to simply just do (as most things are 'easier said than done') but for right now I'd say just to enjoy ever second with her. Be as strong as you can through this. God doesn't burden you with pain or struggle that you can't handle.
You know we're all here for you to talk to or rant whenever need be; however, we aren't quite as good for you as some close family and friends would be at the moment.
Best wishes to you both, keep strong. -Stefhy-

Thank you all! I will do my best to keep in mind all the helpful advice that was given to me. It's just sometimes I look at her and see myself in the future, I see all the things that I want to be and more. But knowing that she may not be around for me to make her proud really hurts. I know that crying dosen't help, neither does wishing and hoping. But I just can't help myself. Every star that I see in the sky I try to wish upon it, I pray, and still nothing seems to work. I kknow I may sound like a child now, but that is how I feel when it comes to my mother, I wish that I could take all her pain away and keep her with me always, but I know that it's just wishful thinking. My mom is my best friend and when she is gone I will have no one.

Letty

you will have us i know what it feels like to lose a mother its hard but you can make it i believe in you we are complete strangers yet in feelings we share similarities people take things differently please dont feel like you cant go on because if you need anyone im here to talk to you i hope that you realise there is always someone who admires you and looks up to you and you will always make someone proud! i am proud of you that you went looking for help here so that kind thoughtful people could give you advice but trust me hun i do realise what ur going through but one day ur mom will look down off a star and you wil make her proud and another thing im sure you dont make her proud im sure you are her pride and joy as every child should be...so see she already is and she knows one day you will make beautiful family and one day you wil see her again because life isnt forever but love is....i wish you the best if you ever need someone just kno people care....i cried when i read ur post because i feel so bad for you....but people care...