I'm an awful friend...I feel so bad..

me and a friend of mine's boyfriend slept together...we were at a party...I got so drunk...I blacked out...me and him hung out for the summer became good friends...the thing is this guy I liked was there and I have no idea why I didn't go for him instead...I'm so awful...if I could I would take it back...what should I do?

I wont lie to you, you have been a horrible friend you committed the ultimate betrayal. I would never forgive you if you were my friend, if you knew you were attracted to the bloke you should have known to keep your distance in the first place. What you have done is just plain nasty, you deserve everything you get...

I have to agree.. my mate slept with my EX hubby while me and him were still together.. I will never forgive her even tho I am over his betrayel [because I have to for the kids], I cant ever forgive her and it's been almost 6 years.

Sorry if this don't make ya feel ne better.. but I agree with the person above me on this one.

Yep, you're a horrible friend. And it's obviously too late now, there's nothing you can do.

It would depend on your friends boyfriend keeping it quiet too, If he wants to remain friends with his mate ....agree it was a mistake and hope the truth never comes out.
I suffered from depression and sometimes struggled with reality in my mind. In comparrison I have been legless, (Alcohol) a handful of times and its rubbish saying you don't know what your doing. If you were that pissed it you wouldn't have been capable of doing anything - so don't use that as an excuse

Forgive yourself and move on

wow, this is horrible. I personally think you should tell her. She will at one point in time find out, but wouldn\'t you rather it come from you then someone else? Plus, it will make you feel better.
because you won\'t be trying to hide it.

BEST OF LUCK!

I have to agree it was a horrible thing to do, although you can say that you were drunk and had no control, however this doesnt make up for the fact you have betrayed her drunk or not drunk, she may not forgive you so i agree you do deserve whatever you get but just make sure he doesnt get off lightly after all HE is the one who betrayed his partner knowing full well he was attached so you are not the only one to blame in this.
so Good Luck to ya if the truth does come out tho =]
~*~Jen~*~

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lmao.. niceeee angelina.. :P

your a backstabber, no good, cheating friend.

sorry, but i have no sympathy for you. you should feel bad about what youve done. id step off if i were you, cause if you were my friend id have no problem kicking your ass then the boys ass.

-kori

There is something about sex that tears apart the heart and rebuilds it. The kind of sex is the deciding factor in the remake.

why do you assume it was all her?....I don't think she held him down and made him do it...I mean it's takes two to tango...she said she didn't remember so maybe he took advantage of her we don't know...does she know?...it's a two way street the guy isn't innocent in this?

I denie that whole-heartedly ^

I tango by myself all the time! (Metaphorically speaking)

she found out...asked me...I tol her...she said she was glad it was me but she still hates me and I don't blame her...but she still wanted to be with the guy and she got mad at me cause he didn't want to be with her...I didnt only lose her friendship I lost his too...but I guess thas what i get!!!

you're not that bad. I mean, even others said you're a horrible friend, somewhat, i bet to disagree. If you're a horrible one, then you shouldn't care at all about your fiend, that you won't tell her the truth. But, you really were wrong.
I tell you what. You shouldn't blame yourself all along. Blame the guy too!