How do you ...

Let go of someone you like sooo much, but can`t ever be with ? It`s more than like, but it`s not lovee . And the feelings hurt so bad, they`re making me so weak cuhs` he`s going out with someone already . And he`s one of my best friends . I know I should wait out my feelings, and I know not to bug into their relationship ;; I haven`t . And that it`s better to keep it on the dl especially cuhs` i don`t wanna screw up our friendship . I`ve been trying to stay strong, but having to see them EVERYDAY together hurts SO much . How do I let go ?
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The best way is to just give it time. Trust me, there's no magic potion or anythign that you can do. You can try to keep your mind off of him, but I know that's hard, too, so just give it time. I went through something like this a little while ago, but I've gotten over it.

Love is not something expressed through holding hands, kissing, or even sex (although I admit they are very large parts of relationships). Love is something that can be cherished and coddled in the mind. If you love him, which I hope for your sake that you do, you will be able to enjoy his happiness and find the opportune moment to propose your love to him.

well im kinda in the same boat as you are, I will tell you exactly what my sister told me..."you can lead a heart to love, but you cannot make it fall" I am head over hills for my best friend and him and I dated for 2 weeks and he decided he wanted to just be friends...alls i can tell you to do is wait and give him time. be friends for a while just be there for him and show him how much he means to you. and sometimes friends become more...just remember "you can lead a heart to love, but you cannot make it fall" kinda like "you can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make it drink" just sit back and give him time and it will work things out on its own. hope I helped if you need farther information feel free to email me at rebel_heart_n_dixie_pride@yahoo.com

also I forgot one detail..."give in, but don't give up"!!!

in life.. there is no letting go... you have to say something.. but you cant cause of the realiationship.. complitcation of life eh :(

I'm in the same boat with a girl that only wants to be friends, and although I end up thinking about her most of the time, I go play poker friday and saturday night which makes me forget my feelings for at least 8 hours a week. I know that may not seem like much but it's the break you need. If you can find something like that to get your mind off of them for a while it will help a lot. I'm not saying if ends everything because I'm still sad for the other 100 hours I'm awake each week, but at least I get my mind off of it for a little while.

I have the same problem n he told me he likes me but i kinda dun believe him...but jus wait, if its ment ta be it will happen

I don't know why you wouldn't believe him, I know I would never tell someone I liked them more than a friend unless I did. People usually don't lie about something like that and if they arn't sure will tell you they arn't sure right now rather than come out and say that they like you.

just a little advice...
i really loved this guy i mean really loved him and one day i had to let him go. and he started dating my friend and omg it killed me inside. then, one day this boy who i'd liked for a few weeks asked me to homecoming and i said yes, and a few days after homecoming, the guy i loved came up to me and told me he'd broken up with his girlfriend and all it took was for him to see me with someone else and it made him realize he was stupid for letting me go and he loved me. and at that moment i was hooked again.

Time, that's all it takes.

You were right for not messing in their relationship. This is one of those cases where you should be putting his happiness before your own.

If it's meant to work out, then eventually it will. And if not, then you'll find someone else.

Don't worry you're not the only one in that kind of situation right now, im in that kind of situation also... But it's been a while and I'm not going to lie I still like him a little, but now it's not as much as I used to like him a lot...Just wait and let things go and let time do its work, that's all have to say... Yea I know what you mean that it hurts seeing them together and maybe wishing that you wish you never liked him or wish he was with you instead... but time moves on and somehow your heart starts to heal and the feelings aren't that strong as it used to be... so i hope through what you're going through right now everything turns out fine and you come out on top of all of it... Just don't forget that there are more fishes in the sea and someone who is better for you :)... Just keep your head up....

wait it out longer, its hard to go through that, but if its really ment to be he will realize that he loves you and dumb her.