*Help Me Please!*

a week age i told michael (my ex) that i still miss em and still loved em and wanted em bac and then i gave em bout a week to think about it and at first he sounded like he wanted to and then i thought about it and i think he just wants to still be friends so Last night i called em up and left em a voicemail sayin that i didnt miss em like i thought i did, i only miss us being as close as we were and that i didnt love em no more like i use to and i think were just better off bein friends and i kno u would want it that way to then i hung up....... now i am having mixed feelings for em and i want to be with him but then i dont and i feel like i made a huge mistake leavin that voicemail!!! help me!! i mean wat if he wanted to be more than friends and i didnt even give him a chance for him to tell me his answer, so i think i blew it BIG time!

Trust me, if this guy loves you, he won't give up. Ok so you screwed up, everyone does at some point in a relationship, heck it happens all the time. You may not know what you want at the moment, give it time, sit on it for a while, let your emotions flow until you say anything else. Then when the time is right, tell him how you really feel, if he hasn't done that with you already. Like I said before, If he really loves you, He won't give up, he will keep trying and trying and trying.

Best of luck, Joe

if he love you he will try but if he dont it end with good-byes!!! i dont know if you feel like it will work then give it a try again but if u think its better off like that then just leave it!

Before you say another word to him, decide how you feel. You are toying with a living being's emotions because of your indecisiveness. You can only hurt him by changing your mind over and over.

Here is what I would suggest. Take him out for lunch (dinner, or whatever you would like), and ask him how he feels. Have a nice little chat with him. Make sure that all of your feelings are said, and that you are completely honest with him.

Who knows. Maybe he will feel the same way.

Don't tell him what you think he wants to hear. Think about it, figure out how you feel, and then go talk to him face to face. Ask him how he feels and go from there.

talk to him face to face and explain how you feel and let him explain how he feels and you can go from there with it

get over him...theres better people out thea...if he dumpt u, his loss

Thank ya'll for helpin me decide, and if we do go bac out it will be for the 3rd time! (the first and second time added up was 9months for us!) but i'll keep ya'll posted thanks! and yes i really do love him!