wut should i do???

  • Puddin Luv
    17 years ago

    ok...my b/f asked me this weekend if i was ready 2 go well....past 3rd base...and i said \"yes\" and now...i\'m, not sure if i am or not...so...wut should i do? i mean...i like him alot...i think i really do LOVE him. he\'s the best thing 2 evr happen 2 me and idk if i should \"go past 3rd base\" b cuz i\'m only 14 and a half. and he\'s 17.

  • donna
    17 years ago

    If you're not sure You are not ready.. If he really loves You he will wait as long as it takes for You.. I have a daughter the same age as You and would strongly advise her to wait and will give You the same advice, if You do decide to go further with him, first make sure You are completely ready and secondly make sure You take every precaution to not become pregnant and not to get any STDs

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    If you aren't sure, then don't. Once you do it, you can't take it back, so you want to make sure it's something you don't end up regretting.

  • Daenerys Stormborn
    17 years ago

    i was 14 when i lost my virginity to a 17 year old whom i thought i was in love with. big mistake, and i regret it still. save your virginity, it is a precious thing that you can never get back

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    I wanted to wait but my scum of a boyfriend at the time didn't want to so we argued relentlessly over it. It just proved he didn't love me.
    I lost it to a boy who waited for me until i was seventeen and ready for it and we're engaged now.
    So please, only do it if your sure and always ALWAYS make sure your doing it cos you want to and not cos he wanst you to!

  • Lovely Bones
    17 years ago

    If you're not ready, or even if you don't know if you're ready or not, the safest bet is to NOT do it. It's better to wait until you know for sure rather than do it in uncertainty, and regret it later.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Age is only a number, I'm with someone and I'm turning 15 and he's 17 turning 18. I don't think that you should have sex though, if your questioning it then you're not ready and if he loves you he should respect that.
    Don't give yourself away to anyone when you're not ready, you'll regret it.

  • the kween
    17 years ago

    if he loves you, he would be able to keep his dick in his pants till your ready...SAY NO TO PRESSURE!!

    and dont forget, u dont got da rubba, de'll be no hubba hubba!!