me,my bf and his mom

i love my boyfriends alot, today its been 5 months weve been togheter and well not long ago he came to me with terrible news.... : his mom has cancer ; breast cancer. i seen them both yesterday and she cried cuz shes loosing her hair cuz of her treatment sessions and well it hurt him and it hurt me too cuz shes really understanding of me and seb and shes like a 2nd mom to me (thats how nice she is).... i wanna help them both what can i do?

ya i did mean BOYFRIEND (oops) ya... i think so too, the hole flower idea isnt what i can do cuz i have hospital tests to help my parents pay for and being a teen the tests take most of my money that i make from babysitting or stuff, its hard...
the tests i have to take doesnt help him either because it might come out to be really bad news and he cannot have me and his mom facing medical problems and surgerys... he just cant tak him.

i really need to find a way to help him face his moms cancer and the possibilities of my tests

You don't have to spend money to make a mom feel better it's the thought she would really appreciate. Writing a poem telling her what she means to you, or even going out and picking flowers (or weeds like dandelions) would put a smile on her face knowing that you were thinking about her.

help make her feel better... secretly work on a gift about something that all three of you have enjoyed together... write a poem about a cherished memorry.. draw a picture... ect.

what kind of tests for me:
cat scans at the hospital to see if im gonna take a stroke or other things my constant pains may be.

and i really like the idea of listening and letting them know that i care!

thanks

Just be there for them sweet heart. That is about all you can do. And be positive. I think that, that would help out both of them.

good luck with everything.

This is just a thought, and it may be a very emotional one for you, but how about you get your hair cut and make a wig for his mom out of it.

Just an idea, but I believe that would hit home with her, judging on your description of your relationship.

ive thought about it and ive actually had it n mind but i cant my parents wont want because they think that im getting to emotionnallt intact with this guy and his family and that i have my own family to worry about... i really will there 4 them

thanks shhdontmove for wishing me good luck, i hope it goes well for all of us too!