when is too young

im 13 and alot of my friends talk about s.e.x its kinda akward for me because some of them have already done it, they say they liked it but i dont think they understand the consequences that come with it. some of my past boyfriends (14 to 18 yrs old) have talked to me about it thinking that we were ready but im not so it lead to many of my breakups. when is too young? i feel ready, i understand the consequences of it but if i it felt right between me and my boyfriend would i be too young? when is too young ? when is the "right" age or time?

YOUR TOO YOUNG!!!!

if your that horney go buy a vibrator

too young........

be at least 18! duh.....

take care.......and don't do it!

xxleisaxx

13 is way too young.. Trust me I was 13 once.. I waited til I was 16.. that was still too young.. lost my virginity to a bloke I didn't care about.. ended up falling pregnant at 16 to a bloke I did care for and was with him for 10 yrs.. but looking back now.. 16 was still way too young.. let alone 13

I'm 18 and I not had sex. I think that the right age is at the least 16 or close to your last year of school. Because if you were to have a kid do you think that you would stay in school? It would be hard. But that is just what I think.

13 is WAY TO YOUNG!!!
Good for you for not going along because of your friends. When friends yell it out to the world that they've done it, they are lying.
I did it when I was 15, and looking back...
WAY TO YOUNG. Everybody who has done it young do regret it. Be smart. Wait a couple of years, you WON'T regret it!!!

I think if you ask that question then somewhere deep inside you know you are too young,think about it nothing negative happens to you for waiting but there are a lot of negatives to rushing into something you aren`t ready for emotionally.whats the hurry, Its not going anywhere? my opinion, yes your too young.

no one uses vibrators..they just fantasize about them

actually that's a big lie, or else the business would have died out long ago. well maybe that's just me. plus i have a boyfriend...ok enough

hahahahah, oh no it's YOU again. I don't even know your name, but somehow I'm still a stalker. Oh jeez...and nothing is on my mind! Besides sex and masturbation that is.

ok my story is simple, I was 14 my first time that was not planned nor entirely volunterley, second time was at the age of 15 and honestly I was entirely ready for it then (17 now) so stop preaching for the poor girl, it's up to you when you are ready and when you are just remember that you should love the person and do it dafe, good look with your choices:D

You're my age, a little too young.

There isn't a specific age, but you should do it when you're ready and when you TRULY love someone, and at our age, true love is still mixed up with puppy love and hard to comprehend.

Even 16 is very young..Cause when the condom breaks and u get pregnant its going to be a struggle...Thats why alot people wait until they are married or no that ur partner will be there no matter wat happens..Plus if u are going to school and have goals its going to b hard making those goals happen b/c u have a child..

Also u can get REALLY BAD diseases down there if u DON'T use protection....
N E ways thats tooooo young.

geez,
when i was 13 everyone was
talking about holding hands not
having sex.

if you're asking other people
if you should then you're not ready.
if there is ONE doubt in your mind then you're
not ready.

I think you're too younge until you're 18. When you're 18 you're an adult. But I don't see why people loose it before you're married. Your honeymoon is suppose to be a very special event. The time when you loose it to the one person you just said I do too. I think that means more then then you're "ready."

I should add my cousin is 15 and the first time she lost it she got pregnet. She is already 3 months about to be 4 months. I'm telling you to think about this choice. Her partner even used a condom.

I mean its an individual choice really, but do I personally think 13 yr olds are capable of fully understanding the depth of a sexual relationship - no. Do they go out and have sex anyways, yes. So what is a happy medium you may ask? Well in my opinion education all we can do is educate youngsters on the ramifications of having sex and sexual relations and hope that as young adults they make the right decisions...

You should be proud of yourself though sweetheart stick to your guns and do whats right for YOU!

If people are breaking up with you because you don't want to have sex then they were not the right person for you to lose your viginity too anyway. And 13 is way too young as stated so many times before me.

P.S: I don't think you should be going out with 18 year olds when you're 13, and especially not having sex seeing as that is illegal in most places. Plus an 18 year old going out with a 13 year old tells me there are some issues there, very serious issues... Stick to people your age, or at the oldest 16, no one older that that should be interested in a 13 year old, especially not for sexual reasons.

Buy your boyfriend an adult film and some lubricant. That should keep him at bay for a couple years.

I did it when I was 15, and it's the only regret that I have.
I realise now that I should have waited until I knew what love meant.
Until I understood the feelings involved with having a sexual relationship.
Sex is supposed to be between two people who are devoted to one another, not between two people trying to please their friends and act cool.

Must add,
I see 13 year olds as children. They surely can't be discussing sex.
When I was 13 people were talking about how to put on mascara and just about getting up the courage to talk to boys.

im 16 but i hav always felt older then my age

so many people dont realise that even at 13, you know your limits and boundaries and that you do actually know how to take care of yourself. maybe its just me but as people grow older then forget this, as well as aquiring understanding, they also lose some

Like other people said I don't think there really is a set age for when you're ready.
I think that when you're ready to have a comitted relationship, think about marriage, possibly have and take care of a child, or be responsible enough to make your own decisions and not give into pressure that's when you're ready to have sex.

13 is way too young
I think that when u r 13 that should be the last thing on your mind but maybe your a lil more grown up when it comes to sex but I say try to hold out for a while longer because your gona be barley going throught the drama of high school and what not and once you have sex things just get way more complacated
Chay

13 IS young for starters and second of all wtf do you mean 14 to 18!?!??!?!!? lol i mean WOW your 13 for crying out loud!!! im 16 and im still a virgin. going out with an 18 year old is illegal he could go to jail ya know. like said above sex should be the last thing on your mind. and BTW please dont have sex just cause your friends do, it wont make you ANY cooler than you already are. hope my rambling helps lol =]

thanks people... my question has been answered... now i know that next time my friends talk about it or a guy decides im not the girl for him because of it ill tell them to bug off and that im not ready ! thanks... now i dont have to be worried when i enter my bf's rrom!

I'm almost 15 and a lot of my friends had sex when they were 14. all but one say that they wish the would have waited. b/c the guy turned out to be a total butt head... and that they would have liked to do it with a guy they truely care about. and the same thing happend to me when i was 13..my boyfriend kept trying to talk me into it, saying "just try it once and if you don't like it we don't have to do it again" "it'll make us closer" and all these other lies....and we ended up breaking up after 8 months b/c i wouldn't "give him some" so yea... ultimatly the choice is up to you, just do what you think is right....or as they say at my school....if you don't want your parents to find out about it, then you prob. shouldn't do it

Be a kid. Sex isn't for kids! I'm 15, a virgin, and I'M AGAINST sex before marridge. IT'S NOT RIGHT! Who cares if you're ready, think about the future. Have fun and don't worry about all that crap, don't even talk about it. Me and my boyfriend have been dating 9 months and almost 10 and we even told each other don't even think about thinking I'm going to have sex with you. And now, sex isn't even in our minds.
Have fun. You're only a kid once in your lifetime!

u r too young....and even me....

yep i agrre with the one on top....i'm against too with sex before marriage...it's just not rite...kisses r ok but not all the way.....

too young when ur under 18

old enough to be mature and responsible. depends on the person, duh o.O

i'd say 16 is the youngest good age to start having sex. but as i said, depends on la persona

Sex is not suppose to be peasure. Sex should only happen when two people are truly and deeply in love. Age for having sex vary for everyone. For me, I think you are tooo young to understand the result of having sex. JUst wait, if the guy truly love you he should understand.

i'm not against sex before marriage.
i'm against sex before you even know who you are.
i'm just finding out the begginings of who i am.
i'm not going to go have sex any time soon.
i'm only fourteen, after all.

so my advice to all of you kids trying to figure out if you should "do it" or not is to just wait.. it's not that big of a deal if you're still a virgin or not. it just matters how you see yourself. just something to think about, i guess.

•PárKerr•

Yea same here... Just wait until you're up to the point that you understand who you are and what you want in your life and how to get there.... SEX can end you up in places in your life that you don't want or didn't expect to be in... At a stage of teenage years in your life so many things are being thrown into your life to make you prepared and be ready for the real world when you're on your own...and one of those things are SEX, so just be prepared to what's going to happen...hope this helps you...

i think u are to young right now. U shouldn't be wearing about things like that there's more to life then that, and as u get older u will understand that. That's all they wont from u if a guy can't wait until your ready, then he is not the one. (:I was just like u when i was younger i thought about it, and wont to just cause all of my friend were doing it. But i didn't and alot of people rescept me for that, guys tried to change my mine but i didn't let that happen the frist time i did it was on my 18 birthday. After i was like that is it that's was what people been talking about it's really not a big deel, and the reason for me saying that u are to young is. Because this is ur frist year of being a teenager grow up and understand, and listen to whats been going on in life. Also try not to drink i mean people or your friends might drink every day, but do u no why i dont either. Dont u think that every time some one should drink it's for a reason, yea i do but people just do it to be cool. Really no one is cool cause they just do what they see other people doing, and it can get u into a lot of stuff. One day u might not can get out of or lead to death

be wise and hope u listen if not when u get older and done all that stuff u would think i just waste my life

ps. hope i answer and glade to help if i did if can write back if u need someone to talk to

If you're not sure, then don't. It's as simple as that.

And 13 is too young. If you feel ready when you're 16 or 17, I can understand that, as long as you are secure and confident in the relationship you are in. Any guy who actually loves you will not pressure you.

in my mind...13 is way way way to young i'm 15 and i still think thats way way to young

i'm 13 too and most girls in my class haven't even had there first kiss
13 is way too young
the farthest i've been is half a pash

and no, i'm not sure if farthest is the right word

13-too young
People are loosing their virginty like a sport these days, people find it strange but many forget the beauty of having sex and at the age of thirteen it's just way to young to comprehend it all, also it's quite terrifying at the same time with so many young people rooting anything that moves well you don't know the full extent of the infections...
16 is the youngest in Australia but really 18 should be it, that way you are a little more mature and aware of the effects of sex.
~Peace out~

i 16 and i still have not done thing like that with a boy !!! you should really think about what you want not what are boyfriend wants when i was 13 all firends were still scared of boys not talking about sex you should really think about that before you do any that could change your life!!!

you are a little young and people will think your a slut, but, i dont thing it really matters the age, its the person, as long as your completly in love with them and comfortable with them through anything, thats when its time,
or as ppl say
when you can dance the hokey pokey naked around them, then your ready
the only reason i think your too young, is beacuase i think your too young to understand love, but,
dotn have sex just to have sex, thats just whorish, and thats not a rep you want to obtain when ur 13