what do I do?

  • Kasie
    17 years ago

    I am in love with my ex bf we were together for 3 years and he broke up with me for another girl that he just met...it really hurt me but I would do anything for us to be together again! He says he loved me and still does but he says he loves her too... what do I do? please help!!!!

  • Lovely Bones
    17 years ago

    Well, in my opinion, if he just met her then he couldn't love her already, and not only that he can't love you and her at the same time in the same way. He's got to make up his mind. Forget about him for now, even if it's hard. Do something to preoccupy your mind and keep yourself busy so that you don't have to think about him. If he wants you he'll dump her and smarten up his act when it comes to your feelings. But if he doesn't, then just move on. Three years is a lot but if it's meant to be it will happen to just move on and let things be.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    That's a looong time. I would hope he wouldn't be willing to just throw that all away, but if he is then there is nothing you can do to stop him.

    Keep in mind, that if he does break up with you, that you can do better and he isn't worth your time anymore. Unfortunately, people change.

  • Mommy And Me
    17 years ago

    you guys were together for 3 years... so he could have went into the relationship hoping for a long term comminment again, making it seem that he loves her. just be there for him... and remind him of times that you had before... subconcencly... like a favorite ice cream shop... just ask if he wants to go for ice cream.. or lunch or something.. and go there and talk and laugh...

    -Terra

  • the kween
    17 years ago

    oh hell just kill the hore that stole him!!
    then kill him cuz that was a nasty thing for him to do!!!