need help from BOYS

hey boys, im sarah, im 13.... ive been in a relationship for a hole 5 months i really like the guy and he loves me too. we dont go to the same school and we are both kinda popular at each our own school and when we are togheter my friends or his friends come to see us and sometimes they come in a wrong moment so it gets kinda akward between me and my boyfriend. we cant seem to be able to be alone with my boyfriend for 1 hour without either his grandparents (they are good people just depending on my boyfriend)or friends bugging us. i really need to know how to let him no that we need some alone time like really "ALONE" .... from personal experiences guys how can i approach that without being too girlie?

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I disagree, at 13 girls can be too girly for guys that age. Most 13 year old guys want to play, have fun, and for the most part just mess around and be a kid. I know if a girl asked me for more alone time now I would make time, but I'm not sure what my reaction would have been at 13. You are just entering the age (at least for me) when you are starting to get more serious with the opposite sex, I know you probably think it's been a few years but when you look back when you're older you'll probably realize nothing before this was even remotely serious. My suggestion would be to take it slow, maybe ask him for another hour or two alone each week and work your way up from there.

shhdontmove is right (i hope so), really i think it should be like that too, i think i need to remove my shyness when some friends walk in during a "private" moment like a smooch....

and for tonye... well im 13 but hes going on 15, i know maybe at this age we are not completely about boys and girls but ive had to grow up fast in my life i had to become a grownup at a very young age because of famiyl probs and him too so were kinda not your normal teens, ya we look like it and are like it but in our hearts were older because of family things that have happenned in both our lives and i think that might of been what broth us togheter!

thanks, any more suggestions are wanted... these are great just maybe more options in case :) :P

agreed with the above.
you may feel like your in love, but soon enough youll grow older and realize it wasnt.

i agree with soul, kids these days throw love around like its nothing.

look maybe i dont know exactly what love is yet but chill i like this guy not LOVE since im 2 young but like if thats better for your ears.... this guy has been my best friend for yrs now that im going out eith him i really care about him. hes been fighting for 2 years for me and im not taking him down now.... thanks shhdontmove, thanks for understanding!

I don't know why you guys get so made at kids saying they are in love, I know for one I thought I was in love many times as a kid, we all do, the fact that we now know that it wasn't love doesn't mean that other people arn't going to feel the same way. Just remember what you used to be like gaga over that girl/boy in grade 6 who's name you can't even remember anymore. It happens, we all feel that way, there is no reason to yell at people for believing they are in love like we all did!

"yeah but damn mann, she's 13, it would be different if she was 15, thats a more respectable age to 'start learning' about love"

You learn more about love from ages one to three than you do in your whole life. Age should never be a factor in love. Love has too many different forms for it to ever be challenged by age.

Who here can define love and believe they are correct?

Who here can condemn young love, and feel love themselves?

Who here can answer these questions?

Not I, or you, or they. We are alive... and the only thing that matters is our capacity to love.

Who here can answer these questions?

None, I say. None

thanks tony

i can answer your questions:

i can define love: something that comes from the heart, warmth for one another and caring and giving... an emotional connection between 2 people.

i can feel love deep in my heart and soul and i know what it is.

look its not because that im 13 that i dont understand age has nothing to do with it... im the same as any adult just the numbers are smaller, you were a teenager too and its true what tony said in 6th grade you loved a boy or girl and you probly dont remember her/his name... dont underestimate teenagers... at our age we understand the real world!

hope you get the message

Plan a day to spend with your boyfriend. And tell your friends you are busy and can't hang out with them.

Explain to your boyfriend that you want to be alone with him, that doesn't make you sound too girly.

What guy doesn't want his girlfriend asking for more alone time? lol.

Sarah - Did you even read my post? I said age is completely irrelevant to love. And your definition of love was an overused cliche.

Love cannot be defined, because no one knows what love actually is. You could argue and bicker with me all day but you would never be correct.

Love does include all of those "heart warming" feelings and blah blah blah, but I bet that some of you don't realize that love is not just a feeling, but a commitment. When you say I love you to someone, it's serious. A lot of people don't realize how serious it is. I'm 16, and I still have a hard time wrapping my mind around it sometimes, that's why I'm waiting.

look nobody im not looking to get critisized im here for help not to get trown off the table.

thanks for everybodys help.... its awsome that all you guys are willing to help!