Wat should I do?

I went out with this guy Mike and we went out for a month. He broke up with me before Halloween...He told me that he was in a gang and he didn't want me to get hurt...So we broke up (By the way he told me in a note he gave me that we have to end our relationship)..I was miserable because he was the first guy u no...after that we were talking and he said that he was to young to love.. But he said I loved u first when we were going out so i was confused...Yesterday wouldv'e been 2 months...Here the problem yesterday after school i went up to him to say hey and stuff because we haven't talked in a while..So I say hi how was your thankgiving and BLA BLA BLA...then i asked him wat new and he said I have A GIRLFRIEND!!!!! I wanted to die because I still loved him very much... I asked who and he said it was a girl named Lysette.. Im so confused right now..I want him back...I never had someone like him who treated me so good...When me and mike where going out she(Lysette) said that he was ugly and weird...Mike also said that he won't have a girlfriend for a while too...I was crying all day at even at my basketball game..When I went on his myspace yesterday he had pictures of a girl that I knew her name is Connie..Its messed up because he didn't put any pics of us when we were going out...SO if any can give some advice on wat i should do then Thank u..

are you sure he truly was that great to you? he sounds a bit messed up! I say speak to him or at least try!

Obviously he's not capable of treating you as well as you first thought he did if he could, so easily move to another girl.

Honestly, don't waste your time with this guy. Getting over someone after only being with them for a month shouldn't be the end of the world. Perhaps you're overestimating how strongly you really feel about him.

Let's face it, the most difficult part about this breakup is the fact that he broke up with you & moved on so quickly. Even girls that are with a guy that they don't like all that much, if he was to breakup with her & move on, it'd still suck. Simply because that situation provides you with the feeling of being replacable.

Well, I hope I helped at least a little bit. Good luck.

.Kayla.

well hun,
If he just moved on to another girl after you two broke up then you should ask yourself this question "did he really want to be with me, or was he playing me?" He sounds like he is really confused on who he wants to be with...Try moving on to another guy and just experiment with different guys until you find one that makes you more happy than he did...honestly he obviously didn't want to be with you too bad if he moved on so fast. hope i helped

I actually got in a conversation similar to this today with a co-worker of mine. We've determined that any guy named "Mike" is this way. I met a guy named Mike at the club about a month ago and we hit it off great. He ended up getting into some trouble so I went to pick him up and brought him to stay close to where I live. He was here for about a week and a half and told me he had to go take a blood test to see if the mother of his first daughter's new baby was also his. He called me that night, told me he loved me and that he would call me back (he also said "I love you" first) and I haven't heard from him since. It's only been 3 days but I'm pretty sure he's not going to call. Stay away from "Mike"'s. They're nothing but trouble. You can find better :)

sounds like a confused ass who lures young girls in with his "charm," then pushes them aside with some lame excuse when he's had his fill. the girl sounds two faced, she probably said he was ugly and wierd when you were together because she was jealous and wanted to make you feel bad. either way, this guy sounds like a real jerk. you can do much better, and i'm sure you will eventually. there are decent guys out there, trust me. i agree with the above person haha, stay away from mikes

Lol Silence: I have to disagree :P. My boyfriend is a Mike and he has been nothing but great to me for the past 6 months we have been dating. Interesting theory though, hehe.

To the original poster: Just stay away from him, he was either making an excuse to dump you, or something stupid like that. He isn't worth your time, I don't see any reason why you should bother. Just let him go, you can do much better.

Now I don't even see them together but he says there going out soo...But soon I will probably see them together and I don't no my reaction will be..I just want to screaaam!!! Its like Ieverything I do it reminds me of him..Like he used to come over when im home alone, and the way he was with me...He treated me great when were together. like when we did it(my first time), and i didn't get my period yet I thought I was pregnant. I told him that I might he said" If u are I will be with u everystep and I won't leave u, we will get through this together" Now that I think of it ....is just bs. He was my first real boyfriend.. My other bf were long distances so I didn't get to see him...(Back to the things that remind me of him) Like my bedroom..How do I get rid of him and all the things that remind me of him??? Im just torn inside...

im agreeing with alot of what was saif above me... so im just not gunna write it all back down.

plus. my friend is going through the same thing in a way... but they were daitng for 1 1/2 years. one day he was crying about being scared they would break up.. and 2 days later he justs gets up and bes all i never had feelings for you i want you out of my life. a few days later he was dating another. they broke up.. now he is dating another... well... i just wish yuo the best of luck with what ever is to come. and obviously if he has moved on this fast then he would have ended up treating you horrible.

I want him back but he wants her....Its just....ugh im so depressed because when this morining I saw them together holding hands...I just wanted to die..I feel like he broke up with me to go with her..Plus I think hes probably desprite for a girl..I think..

if he's one of those "low-life desperate guys" that you think he is, because obviously you think that when you said that you think he's just desperate for a girl, why would you want that anyways??

You're wasting your time hunny, get away with your dignity while you can.

I didn't know that he was a desprite guy looking for a girl...I shouldv'e known

Now Im hearing rumors that they might break up.....but its just rumors....I have a feeling that hes a rabbit..He f***s everything he sees(girls). I don't really care about him now I have someone else..It would b so funny if he tried to get back with me (which i doubt) but it would be funny.

lol...it's good that you moved on..
but yea...that would be funny..

Hmm, you are with a new guy already? Slow down girlfriend! Haha, glad you're over your ex. He sounded like a real dirtbag

I don't have a new guy right now...the girl he was going out with broke up with him...They broke Last thursday..She broke up with him..I don't no y but thats not my business....Yeah now that im thinking i was stupid to love him b/c he did use me and hes a player who plays with girls minds....

forget him and move on