What Would You Do????

  • Brittany C
    17 years ago

    If your bf or gf said they would do something more then once but never did? Like they say they will call you that day and never did and or said they would email but they didn't. And that just kept happening?

    Please tell me what you think.

  • xxmichaelxx
    17 years ago

    dump..........or.......ignore for a few days....that's wat i used to do..

    xxleisaxx

  • Mommy And Me
    17 years ago

    agreed ^ dont call or talk to them for a few days... it may be hard. but try... and then if they are still being stupud dump.

  • ABrookeD
    17 years ago

    I disagree. I think you should talk to him. Ask him why he never does what he says he's going to do. Communication is very important.If he doesn't have a reason, or continues what he's doing, then maybe you should end it.

  • Brittany C
    17 years ago

    Thanks guys:)

  • Tony E
    17 years ago

    Definately just talk to them, I know for me I'll often forget to call but that's just because I have a pretty bad short term memory, it doesn't mean I don't care or am uninterested, I just forget until the next day or wake up at 2 in the morning realizing that I forgot and feel horrible.

  • XxChelseaXx
    17 years ago

    well it depends on how serious it is..if it's just forgetting to call back or something then dont worry about it..but if they say they'll meet you for dinner or a movie or something and always tends to "forget about it" then talk to them..if they keep doing it consistantly do the same to them..and when they say something about it, tell them that you were only doing to them what they were doing to you..see if it changes

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    If it's just about calling or emailing or anything small like that, then try not to worry about it. Some people are just forgetful, it doesn't mean anything really. You can just call them instead.

    If it becomes a bigger problem, and is serious enough to really upset you, then just sit down and talk with that person. They should understand and make more of an effort. And if they don't, then don't bother with them.

  • catherine
    17 years ago

    i think...its better to confront him/her and ask him/her frankly what he/she is trying to do...why he keeps on telling something that he/she never did....or else do the samethings what he/she been doing so that he feel what your feeling...

  • Pianist
    17 years ago

    If email and phone calls are your biggest relationship problem thank your lucky stars.

    Honest to god.

  • Brittany C
    17 years ago

    Thanks guys. But it is as of today to late. He broke up with me.