Single?

Just curious .. how many of you just aren't into love?

I feel like I want love just not yet. I want the freedom. Sometimes I just think love is a hassel because you may love someone who doesn't love you back. And its better to just associate with guys rather than be in a relationship because they change after your dating them. Being single means no committment and no worries! For now I'm loving it!

BJ

-By the way Love is great..when you find someone that loves you back!

ooh! me! not like a have any choice by the way since i'm not allowed to be not single... *scratches head* anyways, i agree about the negatives you've listed about love. so have you been lately?

I am single but in love but trying to get out but its so hard! :( I act single but not around him. nIts weird, i know. But imma try not to talk to him for a few days or a week so i get a break so maybe some love will fade away because things aren't working out! I get jealous alot and so does he and he makes me sad a lot but i can't stop loving him! I guess i'm both, single and in love!

Hmm... yes, single here... single but in love, secret love, one way love... oh it sucks so much... maybe I should just be happy about my single statues ;)

I'm single also and for the most part, agree with your post Browneyes. However while I'm dating I try my best not to be careless with other people's feelings. And yes, the freedom is nice. But I'm always busy with school and basketball so I really don't have much time to spend in a relationship, unless that person shares the same interests as me.

i agree with yenny..
b/fs and g/fs take up so much time... im starting to realise how much freedom i had when i was single.. like how if i say a guy is hot everyone is like 'u have a bf!' and i am expected to be by his side every second of the day..
lol i love him to bits and like someone said in an earlier post they are taken but act single when they arent around their bf or gf.. thats kinda like me...
anyways i think im talking too much.. oh well thats just what i think.. toodles..

in some ways it's fun to be single. you can go out an get off wiv watever random guy you like without feeling guilty. you can flirt an look at any guy you like. you don't get stressed over wat's going wrong wiv ur relationship cuz u don't hav 1.
on the ova hand, it's nice to have a kiss weneva u like. it's nice havin some1 2 hug an some1 2 talk 2 on a night. at the end of the day, it's nice 2 b wanted an it's not very fulfillin havin a different guy every week, but i ges i hav no choice to be single 4 now, i've neva found love an maybe neva will so i shud be fankful for da fun side of bein single

i have fallen in love before, but i don't think anyone has ever fallen in love with me. I think that i only want a boyfriend because ive never had one.. which is wrong, i know, but i cant help wondering what its like to have someone hug you because they honestly love you. Gosh foundit i'm such a helpless romantic... I don't know.. people have asked me out, but ive never had feelings for them, so naturally, i said no. I just dont know anyting when it comes to love. IM SO LOVE IMPARED!!!

Wow! I totally forgot about this post. Glad to see some of you put some input into it. I hope I didn't seem totally cold-hearted. I just don't see the point in investing so much time and emotion into someone that will probably leave you anyways. I think I am still young for anything serious. I have a friend who just got engaged, and shes 16! I don't think I could do that. I wouldn't have the courage! Although It is really great to have someone there waiting for you at the end of the day, I am not willing or perhaps ready for anything serious. Theres a lot involved in being in a relationship,thats serious anyways. Maybe the hardships are worth it to some of you, but I've never met a guy thats been there for me or that was really sincere. I'm not saying theres none out there I just haven't met the right guys!

-BJ

hey i actually know what ur feeling, i am single and i am in love too, but i wouldn't be single is i didn't move but i had to! So ya i with ya in this subject.... he is always in my head, i want him to be erased but sometimes i don't! So ya i know whta it is like!

Lyssa